What the heck kind of question is that…

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
367 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

maybe she is has some social anxiety and is trying to prepare herself?  or maybe she is sensitive to noises and is wondering if she should bring ear plugs? (we know someone like this)

Post # 5
205 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@irishphoenix:  Maybe she’s going to go all Oprah on you guys and buy everyone a car! Anddd maybe she needed to brush up on her moves if you’re dancing! DUH!

Post # 6
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I bet she’s trying to decide what to wear!

I’ve asked people about bizarre stuff like that before!

Post # 7
3633 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

LOL I have a friend like that and he asks that about every gathering, whether it’s a casual BBQ we are hosting or a birthday dinner with a bunch of other people. He always asks about the menu, the ambiance, who’s invited, etc. He likes to pretend it’s because he wants to bail if it sounds like it’s going to be “lame” but we’re really good friends so I know he would never bail on anything I host. It could just be a morbid curiosity question.

Post # 8
274 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Maybe she’s excited about the wedding and wants to know some details? Or she’s trying to figure out what outfit/shoes to wear?

I mean it’s your guest not a nemesis, right lol?

Post # 10
3889 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

She’s probably trying to figure out what to wear and how late she will be out.  Big crowd + dancing = could be a late night!

Post # 11
3978 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I guess I’ve asked questions like this, probably to figure out what to wear. 

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