(Closed) What to do about Bridesmaids!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Welcome Jenny!

Is your friend domineering to you? Or is she just a strong personality in general? I have an thing for attracting strong personalities. My step-mom is one, my co-worker is another and one of my BMs is too. They are are loud and sometimes crass, but that’s one of the reasons I love them.

Now, the reason I ask if she’s domineering to you is because I think there is a valueable trait a domineering or brash friend has in a wedding party. They can be the best go-to person, getter-doner, and door man you could ask for. I know that these women, although opinionated, would be the first person I would go to to deal with a difficult vendor or tell people to get out of my bridal suite on the day of.

If your friend is okay with your life and your opinions and isn’t domineering to you, then I say ask her to be in the party. It sounds like you are close and everyone else who knows you really well feels she is going to be there for you. As far as everyone else, they’ll figure out her personality soon enough and will likely steer clear if things get too opinionated for them. She’s your friend and don’t let other people’s opinions of her get you down. If she’s been there for you and supported you, then by all means invite her.

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