What to do about my bridesmaids?

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
112 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Have you reached out to either of them for a one on one get together? I noticed my maids being a little distant a while back and thought maybe a dinner date with each one would be nice, and help things feel normal again. Wedding stuff can be overwhelming, esspecially on top of their actual lives, so I prefaced that no wedding stuff would be discussed and that just wanted to meet and catch up on life. It really helped with my FSILs. Hope this helps!

Post # 4
7630 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

If they’re all pushing you away it sounds like you need to make more of an effort to connect with them as friends. As in put wedding planning on hold for a month or so and just see what’s going on in their lives. 

Post # 5
1626 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@AlwaysSunny:  +1 I agree. And care about them as people. Also, if they’re good enough friends (which it sounds like they are), I don’t see why you can’t say, “Hey, I’ve been getting the feeling that you’re upset at me. I’d be mortified if I have upset you in some way and would really like to discuss things so we can work past this. Is everything okay?” and go from there.

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