(Closed) What to do regarding friend’s bad behavior?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
4887 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Not worth it.  It was last year?  Yeah, it’s time for everyone to move on.  You did the right thing by telling Cara to stop talking shit, but at this point it’s time for everyone to just get over it and move on with their lives. 

Post # 4
4275 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Ugh people….. I guess a year later there is nothing you can really do…

Post # 5
4464 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

@KristenGotMarried:  This exactly. Whatever Bridesmaid or Best Man drama went down, it’s over now. You did the right thing by standing up to Cara, and if she continues to talk smack, then just firmly stand your ground. But definitely don’t bring up any year old wedding drama. 

Post # 6
9917 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

@mockingjay1984:  I wouldn’t.  No good will come of dredging it all up.  A few of my bridesmaids are being ridiculous…one even yelled at me for having a new ring (as opposed to something vintage) because it was a blood diamond…!!!!  (by the way, it’s a conflict free diamond).  But getting mad at her is not going to help anything!  I want things to go smoothly and so I’m going to let things go.


However, if it were a regular situation, without a wedding, I would say something! 

Post # 7
2450 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

um… your friends are catty enough talking behind each other’s backs… do you know how catty you will sound if you say “hey remember last year when you said blah blah? well you’re a liar.” 

srsly. don’t even bother with this old stuff… it’s old. ignore them all.

Post # 9
248 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012


I know what it is like to have ‘friends’ stirring trouble up. Ex friends of Fiance and myself are still gossiping about us, nearly 2 years after we last had contact with any of them. 

Like PPs have advised, ignore, ignore, ignore.  If any of these ladies bring it up again, tell them it’s in the past, you’ve moved on and so should they.  And that you don’t want to hear about it all again.


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