What to do-should I invite them?

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Should I invite them?
    YES! Of course! It would be rude not to. : (10 votes)
    48 %
    NO! She understands. : (9 votes)
    43 %
    Other (Response below, please!) : (2 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 3
    377 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Me being me – I would invite them.  My original response was going to be no – but then I got to the last sentence (it’s a destination wedding and you doubt they’ll be able to make it anyway).  If the chances of them being able to attend are slim, then I don’t see why I wouldn’t invite them.  I knew a few people weren’t going to be able to attend our wedding way before the invites went out, but I still sent the invite 🙂  If you choose not to invite, then I’m sure they’ll understand as well.

    Post # 6
    3637 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    IF they DID come, could you afford for them to do so? I know it’s only 2 (or 3 with baby) people, but when you think about food+invites+favors+whatever else you are having, it could be a largeish sum of money.

    If you are having a strict budget and them coming would put a strain on you, then don’t invite them. You yourself said that she would understand and even though they most likely won’t make it, there is always that chance. 

    If you could comfortably afford it, then invite them. It will be nice and might lead to a reconnection.

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