What to do, What to do…

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
1613 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@ajillity81:  They call you the day of his funeral to tell you he’s dead? It’s almost like you are an afterthought.

If I were you, I would just send invites to those you are close to and maybe afterward send a wedding annoucenment to the family. I feel like if they wanted to get to know you they would have kept in contact. I hear from my ILs almost everyday just to say hi. It isn’t hard to pick up the phone..

Post # 4
9526 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I think that since you’ve had such limited contact with them, it would be fine not to invite them. I agree that you should have invited your GF, had he still been alive. Do you have any sort of contact with his wife? If not, I wouldn’t invite her. I woudl send her a sympathy card.

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