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    reinab505    April 2, 2011   Indiana, US

    So I found three of my top four dresses at a shop in Boston, and they could try to get the fourth one if I want. However, I am in Indianapolis. My question is do I want to drive up there and try the dresses on all in the same day OR have them sent to my house one by one, having to return them if I don't like them and waiting weeks in between?

    It costs about $350 to Newburgh, NY (45 mins. north of the city) and back; I haven't looked up the difference in distances yet. It costs $40 to ship a dress one way.

    What is a girl to do? I'd love to do it all at one time, but I would have to go by myself. If they are shipped here I can show them to my mom and sisters.

     
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    ccranetobe    August 14, 2010   Albany, Western Australia

    @reinab505: How much does it cost to ship them back? if that 40 bucks is not including shipping and insurance, I would drive :)

     
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    MrsJKH2be    October 2010  

    Take the flight into Logan and go by yourself - lkots of bridal shops to look at there as well.  Enjoy the day - there is tons of fun and shopping in Boston!!!

    I am only 90mins from Boston but I went there when Vera Wang was having her Sample sale - it was an amazing time!!!  They are sooo nice there!!

     
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    mandb122    March 6, 2011   Temporarily in Minnesota, From South Carolina, Wedding in Charleston

    I love Boston so I would probably actually go to the city to try the dresses on and have a good time!

     
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    MrsJKH2be    October 2010  

    Or how about taking a train?

     
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    reinab505    April 2, 2011   Indiana, US

    @ccranetobe - the $40 is shipping to here, but with insurance to send them back wouldn't be anymore than that. I've looked into it. :)

    I love Boston, much more than NY (sorry to any NY girls), so I wouldn't mind the trip. However, I hate not having my car when I fly places. Plus, if I find something while there and it needs to be altered... I'd hate to make two trips/then pay for shipping or take it on a plane.

    Then again I'm pretty bad about getting things shipped by a certain time.

    See, I keep thinking of reasons why I should or shouldn't do it one way or the other.

     
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    ccranetobe    August 14, 2010   Albany, Western Australia

    just do it!! go there! enjoy the experience and nothing like a good trip away! if the dresses arent what they are meant to be I would research a few bridal places in your destination and also have a browse! cant hurt! you wouldnt have that option if you got them shipped!

     
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    noritake22    March 31, 2011   Seattle

    If you have them all sent to you and you send them all back, from what you have said, it will cost a minimum of $320.00. I say go there and save yourself the headache. It will be a nice get away.

     
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    MsBlueberryBee    January 2015  

    I would go there to try them all on. That way you can also compare them in a place with a lot of mirrors, and probably better lighting than at your house, and if you do need to get it altered you can always have it altered at a place local to you and not in Boston. I'm having my dress altered by a private seamstress not someone who works for where I bought my dress.

     
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    crayfish    September 11, 2010   Boston, MA

    You said you hate being places without a car - Boston is more inconvenient WITH a car, unless you are trying to go to a bridal salon in the suburbs. The subway and cabs are waaayyyy easier to get around on, and much cheaper. Just go spend a weekend in Boston. September and October are the BEST here, too, the tourists are mostly gone, and the weather is actually good (for a change).

     
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    stillme    October 2010  

    I'd go to Boston. That way you can try on all 3--or 4--and make your decision based on complete information. If they're shipped to you one by one, you might be stuck thinking, "this one's really pretty, but I wonder if I'll love the other one even more..."

     
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    rachelss    August 22, 2010   Fort Collins, CO

    Why don't you drive to Chicago? There must be bridal shops in Chicago!

     
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    Ei    September 10, 2011  

    i would take a fun day trip to boston...i think it would be good to see them on you all at once b/c i think it will be easier to decide...maybe invite your mom to take the trip with you? otherwise, make sure to take your camera! 

     
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    reinab505    April 2, 2011   Indiana, US

    Chicago has plenty of shops, but I travel to NY every other month so I was looking for something out that way. I didn't want to shop in NY and happened to find a shop in Boston that has the dresses I want to try on. It may seem strange, but I just never go to Chicago.

     

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