- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
Cliffnotes of the story…
The first bridesmaid dress I wanted them to buy was an expensive dress…noone had the money. So I chose a cheap dress online.
The dresses came in and looked like shit.
a few girls wanted to keep the ugly dresses and try to alter them and a few wanted to return them.
To end the drama I said…everyone return them and buy this new dress for only 40 dollars more.
To which one bridesmaid said that she couldn’t afford that and would just not be in the wedding. (side note…she planned her wedding for 2 weeks after mine so her money is going to that)
Really? after alterations this could have saved you money…and if not it would only be a tad bit more.
Has anyone had these kind of issues? How do you do about having a bridesmaid drop out? What do you do for the wedding party and even more important…does it affect the friendship permanently?
I’m so upset and torn.