Online Dress Vendors?
more by arenyth
WHY WHY WHY did I go to a couture dress shop?!
Sweetheart necklines - good for big boobs or small boobs?
more in Dress
Maggie Brides how long did it take for your dress to come in?
know any good lingerie shower gifts?
more in Boards
Maggie Brides how long did it take for your dress to come in?

What to do when no one has your "dream dress"?

posted 2 years ago in Dress
  •  
    1.
    1,484 posts
    Bumble bee
    arenyth    May 14, 2011   planning in CA, wedding in NJ

    So I'm looking for a very old hollywood glamour feel for my wedding. I've been trying on lace dresses, and they're nice, but they just don't cut it. But then I saw the Maggie Sottero Gatsby, and I'm almost sure it's the one!! But everywhere I call they say they don't have a sample and now Maggie has taken it off their Loaner program, so they can't even get a dress for me to try. Is there any way around this? Were there any dresses you girls found that you couldn't see in person? has anyone ordered just based on the picture? That freaks me out, but I can't find anything that compares...

     
    2.
    Member
    3,340 posts
    Sugar bee
    Melissabegins    December 12, 2009  

    I don't know - if you're sure it's your dream dress, and you've tried on similar silhouettes and know that they look good on you - i'd gamble and buy it.

    ETA - you have a year though - give it 6 more months and then gamble and buy it if you're not able to try it on in that timeframe.

     
    3.
    Bee Icon
    Bee
    6,780 posts
    Busy
    Beekeeper
    spaniel    March 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    If you can find a similar sillhouette, try that. Allure 8601 has the same vertical stripe/applique pattern if you want to see what that looks like (although the dress is nothing like it at all). If you're okay with both... buy the dress! :)

     
    4.
    Member
    3,652 posts
    Sugar bee
    meliss    May 31, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    You could always have it custom made since you have plenty of time. I would always go with a local seamstress as opposed to someone in China if you do that, even bigger risk of unpleasant surprises that way.

    Have you tried other Maggie dresses and liked them? I had several Maggie pics I loved when I was shopping but when I tried on the dresses I didn't like them in person. The fit was usually great but the quality and materials seemed off. Could be just me though. If you're not super picky and don't have the resources to have one custom made, you can take a chance on ordering one.

     
    5.
    1,484 posts
    Bumble bee
    arenyth    May 14, 2011   planning in CA, wedding in NJ

    Melissa, you're so bad, I want to order it right now :P But I guess since it's not available anywhere it won't kill me to keep looking int the meantime.

    Hi Miss Spaniel! I was actually just looking through your posts to see if thats the one you ended up with. They are very similar, but somehow different. Was yours technically "drop waist"? Thats how theyre advertising this one, which is why I'm so scared to try it out ... I'm only 5'. I'll give yours a try though!

    Meliss, I've thought about going custom, but I wonder how lace works with that? It seems much easier to make a satin dress than something that looks so detailed. Maybe I'll have to ask around?

     
    6.
    Member
    3,652 posts
    Sugar bee
    meliss    May 31, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    The lace is just an overlay. It's not more difficult for the seamstress to work on. Challenge will be finding the type of lace that you want, you may need to look online and at fabric districts quite a bit. It is a lot of time and effort and possibly money. But, after several failed dress attempts; I wished very badly I had gone the custom route so I put it out there for any bride who can't find their dream dress :)

    The Maggie site has pics of real brides on that link, how did you like those?

     
    7.
    1,484 posts
    Bumble bee
    arenyth    May 14, 2011   planning in CA, wedding in NJ

    !!! One of the salons I left a message with has one!!! OMG. She also said it's in danger of being discontinued since it's going on it's third year :( Does anyone know how to tell if that might really happen? Can I call Maggie Sottero and ask? I can't find a number.

    They did say they could sell the sample to me if I needed to, but it's a size 8 when I'm a size 4/6. How unrealistic is it to think it could be altered? I don't want to ruin the beautiful design of the dress...

    Still so excited!!

     
    8.
    Bee Icon
    Bee
    6,780 posts
    Busy
    Beekeeper
    spaniel    March 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    @arenyth: Yes, mine was a drop waist dress (althouth the sillhouette was more of a trumpet than Gatsby and there were no straps--but the tulle overlay with the lace appliques are the same). I'd recommend trying it just to see how you feel about what the vertical stripes and the drop waist do for your figure. You should also try dresses with a similar shape, and other Maggie dresses to get a feel for the construction and the corset back to make sure you'd be happy with it. But after that, since you can have it altered to fit you perfectly anyway, I would take the jump!

    ETA: I'm so glad you found it! If it discontinued, they will still be able to get it to you if you order it before then! :)

     
    9.
    Member
    878 posts
    Busy bee
    brittanymichelle    June 5, 2010   Cheyenne, Wy

    if it's an 8 and your a 4/6 i almost garauntee it will be a near perfect fit, get your butt over there and try it on! an post pics too!

     
    10.
    Member Icon
    Member
    599 posts
    Busy bee
    jackie_t4701    May 14, 2011   TX

    I have tried this dress on and it fits beautiful, but I'm in TX!  It is one of the contenders on my list.  This is one of the dresses that looks as good on us as it does on the models.

    Have you called bridal salons an hour or 2 from where you are.

    I am willing to travel 3 hours to go to bridal salons.

     
    11.
    Member
    4,075 posts
    Honey bee
    Amaryllis    July 2, 2011  

    Maggie sizes run smaller than street sizes, so an 8 would probably be a good fit for you if you are a 4/6. And the corsets make it really easy to accommodate sizing. I am a 6/8 street size but a 10/12 Maggie size. You should definitely go try it on!

     

    Reply

    You must log in to post.





    Visit our sister sites eHarmony
    Online Dating
    eHarmony Advice
    Dating Advice
    Project Wedding
    Wedding Songs
    JustMommies
    Pregnancy Calendar
    Copyright 2004-2012, Weddingbee.com
     

    Find your vendors on Weddingbee

    Real reviews from brides in your area!

    Favors by Weddingbee

    • Favors by season

    Shop Now ยป

    Find Registry Find Registry Find Registry

    More
    User Posts Today
    MissBoPeep 93
    beargoose 55
    ndreighton 55
    hisgoosiegirl 52
    Mrs.KMM 46
    BetterSherm 42
    akp0702 41
    Beckster329 37
    stardustintheeyes 36
    MrsPom 36

    Dress

    User Posts Today
    capergrrl 7
    longtime_no_Si 7
    sienna76 6
    dazzledbyEddy 6
    deborah.dehlinger 6
    pengoala 5
    peachacid 5
    Tiffner 5
    sopranokris 5
    Mrs.KMM 4
    More