(Closed) What to do when someone expects an invite…

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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1202 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@LillyLover:  I don’t think I would tell her flat out that you aren’t inviting her. Assuming you didn’t give her the date or any other information related to your wedding, I would just tell her that you haven’t decided on a date or anything. And if you aren’t close to this girl, you are in no way obligated to invite her. Cool

Post # 4
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701 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2004

sometimes i think people are just genuinly interested in your weddng and not tryng to get an invite. I asked a friend whom i used to be really good friends with, but in no way thought i would be invited as we were no longer keeping in regular contact and i had asked her how the wedding plans were going for her, and if she had found a dress yet as i’d heard tht they can take ages to buy. this was not a random conversation started by me. in no way was i asking for an invite, but just inquiring about her life when we were texting over nothing really.. she sent me back a response  saying  something along the lines of keeping it small and family orientated. I was flabberghasted. honestly i just want to talk about the weddig not ask for an invite. i did say to her straight after that im sorry if that sounded like i was expecting an invite, and that in no way did i, i was genuinely interested in the planning, and sorry for putting her in a situation that felt uncomfortable. So berfore you send her one of thos uncomfortable resonses think about what she is asking you. it could be a misunderstanding.. or not.. GL

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