Post # 1
According to my O date I’m about 6 weeks along. I have my first appt set up for tomorrow evening and my DH and I are very excited! What exactly happened during your first prenatal visit? Did you have a sono done? I have a list of general questions to ask the dr but I’m curious to hear what advice you ladies may have in regards to important questions I should ask (things that a first time mom wouldn’t think of).
Post # 3
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@xdaydreams05x: At our first appointment we got a physical exam (like a mini-annual exam) and did an in-office pregnancy test. We went over our options for genetic testing and got paperwork to schedule our first ultrasound (to check for dates and viability) and my first panel of bloodwork. Unfortunately for me, my office doesn’t do ultrasounds in-house.
I think at this point it’s still so early that there’s really not much they can do, unless you’re considered high risk and they need to check for certain things.
Post # 4
My first prenatal appt wasn’t until I was like 11 weeks or something… but they do a physical basically, and a bunch of lab work. We did try to listen to the heart beat but they couldn’t find it so they did a quick u/s to make sure there was indeed a baby in there.
They go over the “dos and don’ts” and make sure you’re on prenatals, and should go over your questions with you.
Also, if they do an ultrasound and you’re still quite early, it might not be an ‘over the belly’ u/s… it might be an ‘up the hoo-hah’ u/s (just a heads up in case you didn’t know that)
Post # 5
@xdaydreams05x: i went at 8 weeks, i had blood work and urine sample which is pretty standard (or if they dont do it inhouse, they tell you to order it). weight, blood pressure, and telling you to take prenatals/folic acid. and they answer any questions you have
They gave me an U/S but here in mexico we have one every single appt. in UK you only get 2 i think at 12 and 20 weeks, and in US it depends on your insurance but they might not do one so early unless youre high risk – at 6 weeks its pretty hard to see anything, so even if they do an early one they might want you to wait a bit
Post # 6
I get the impression its completely different for different doctors. I was quite disappointed when my first, at nine weeks, consisted of the doctor checking “up there” (I’m still not quite sure what for) and then a ton of blood tests and being weighed and giving urine. That was IT. we were so disappointed my husband had wasted half a day and taken off work!
Post # 7
I had a mini exam, lots of paperwork and an ultrasound to make sure the baby was in the right spot, and the sac, etc were all good. They also measured the baby and told me my approximate due date based on the baby’s size and last period.
Post # 8
Mine wouldn’t schedule me until 8 weeks. I had a vaginal US. Then I was subject to a barrage of questions from my OB about my diet and both DH and my family history. (It was very helpful to have him there.) Then I had a ton of bloodwork because I also opted for the genetic screening. I had 9 vials drawn between the general blood panel to the genetic screening. I also had to give a urine sample, which they have done at every appointment since then. (I’m currently at 32 weeks.
Post # 9
@xdaydreams05x: my first prenatal appointment (I think at 5 1/2 weeksish), which I made after I had blood taken to confirm pregnancy, she did a physical exam (checked my cervix) and just asked questions about my family history and symptoms. Some women have to give blood work and urine. I did not have to do either. Going forward, every appointment I have I will be expected to give urine unless it is an ultrasound (I have to have a full bladder unless she tells me otherwise).
Anyway, go in with a full bladder. You may be able to get an ultrasound, but sometimes they do not schedule one until 12 weeks because insurance will not cover it except for the 12 week appointment, which was my case. I work a clinic so I got mine free, which was nice.