(Closed) What to say in thank you card for monster SIL?

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

How about “thank you for sharing the day with us?” 

Strictly speaking, if she only attended, didn’t play a role in the wedding and didn’t get you a gift, she’s not owed a thank you so you could just send the ty to your MIL. 

Post # 4
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Helper bee

I got married in August as well, and in the same situation as you. You can read my horror stories about  my MIL and SIL in the family section. My mother in law gave a card to my husband only and included a gift card to home depot ( he is a contractor) my sil gave us a card but refused to sign HER name so she put her dogs names…we felt that after drama and no support and basically cutting them out, we werent going to send them TY cards, the did their damnest to try to ruin the wedding, so to me why thank them for that. We sent back the GC his mother gave him so it solved our problem of having to send a TY.

We are only sending TY to people who gave a card or a gift.

I’m not sure you really need to send a TY to someone that attending but made it hell for you but didn’t give a card or a gift. I say don’t send her anything

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

How about, “thank you for all that you didn’t do.” (I.e. be even worse than what you were that day!) Laughing

 

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

I would just kill her with kindness. “Thanks for sharing our special day with us, it meant so much to both of us that you were there.”

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I agree with Artbee. A TY note is not the time to call her out for her immature behavior.  So send her the generic thank you.  

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

i also agree with artbee. kill her with kindness.

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