Post # 1
who have not RSVPd yet. The deadline has just passed and I’ll be making phone calls tomorrow night.
How do I ask nicely without saying “WTF, why didn’t you respond so I don’t have to waste my time chasing you down?”
What should I say?
Post # 3
I would just say something like . . . We haven’t received your RSVP card and want to make sure it didn’t get lost in the mail (which you both know isn’t true), will you be able to celebrate with us?
Did the deadline literally just pass a couple days ago? I would maybe give it a couple more days to bring in any straggling cards that could still be in the mail. It could drastically cut down on the number of phone calls you make. Some people see the date and drop it in the mail on that date instead of realizing that you should RECEIVE it by that date.