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What was/is your splurge for your wedding ????

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    Earlybride    October 6, 2012  

    Bees,

    My wedding is pretty low budgeted. But so far everything is working out. You really can do alot on a low budget! Just got to be creative. Anyway, I have been looking at shoes and I think I have found the ones that I want to get. 

    Im considering one of these:

     

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    What was/is your splurge for your wedding  ???? :  wedding shoes flats Vera Wang Lavendar Silver Jeweled Wedding Flats 001 If I could find flats as nice as these, I would be in heaven!!! :  wedding shoes flats heels Vera Wang Lavendar Silver Jeweled Wedding Flats 001

     

    Out of all the flat shoes Ive seen, none have given me (peace) about them. Ladies you know what Im talking about. You know that feeling you get when you have found THE shoes. :)

    Im thinking about saving for one of these. Plus I just saw that the bottom one is on sale right now at 170! Usual price is 275! SO if I decide to get these, this will be my big splurge. Whats yours???

     

     

     
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    natbug21    March 16, 2012   Destination wedding in New Orleans, LA

    Man those are some super cute shoes! Definitely a good splurge :) I have splurged on my dress (Ian Stuart) and I splurged on getting a second line parade for my guests! Blargh that's like 2 grand I could have saved right there!!!!

     
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    al1988    June 17, 2012  

    Ahh I loveeee love love them! super cute, I want a pair!

    for me as of now, Might sound silly.. but..

    chocolate fountain !

    Yes please! lol

     

     
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    Miss Orchard    September 8, 2012   Cambridge, MA

    Hmm...as far as an absolutely-not-necesarry splurge...a martini louge with signature drinks! Totally not needed butttttttt if we can afford it...I want it! Oh, right, we're also spending $1200 on Chiavari chairs vs Ballroom chairs...who would have ever thought i'd care about chairs?!? apparently i do!

     
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    christinenadine      

    I've already splurged on shoes, haha, they were $200 (orig. $300, but at least I got a deal) but supposed to be about the most comfortable shoes you can get. I've worn then to a few things so they already need to be cleaned though :p

     
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    lefeymw    April 16, 2011   CT

    photography and food.

     
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    linguo42    February 27, 2011   Vancouver, B.C.

    That second pair is fabulous! Out of all my accessories, my shoes were my biggest splurge. I had to do it, I mean, when would I ever get a chance to wear something like these again? :)

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    bakerella    September 11, 2010   Toronto, ON

    @lefeymw: Ditto, and worth every penny :)

     
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    natbug21    March 16, 2012   Destination wedding in New Orleans, LA

    @linguo42: Those are so cute! Good splurge for sure :)

    @lefeymw: This is what I was going to splurge on but I got really lucky with only having to pay travel costs for my photographer (I LOVE them and theyre professionals not friendors!) and then my food somehow turned out surprisingly cheap! We are using a household name (Brennan) in New Orleans but since I am also using their venue I get a major discount on all this yummy southern food! Oh yeah :)

     
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    KristenGotMarried    May 19, 2012   The Cbus

    Bar, string quartet, keeping the butterfly exhibit open during cocktail hour, cake.

     
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    jo.lee    September 10, 2011   Indianapolis

    Mine was definitely the dress and the photography. Here's both :).

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    mrsbruff2b    June 20, 2012   Canada (wedding in Cancun)

    Photography~

     
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    pccl    November 10, 2012   Kentucky

    I know its time to finally get married (7 years in the making) when everything kept falling into our laps, perfectly and nearly free!

    After a 75% off dress, a 97% off e-ring (yes, I said 97% and i mean it!), winning a free e-pics session, free church, ridiculously inexpensive shoes and hair, getting invites and programs @ cost thanks to a family friend, free flowers (my mom is a genius with all things floral), I have 2 BIG splurges...Photography and reception venue. 

    For a couple years now I've stalked my photog's website dreaming of having him do my e-pics and wedding but I knew I could never afford it.  I entered a contest and WON him to take e-pics.  As soon as I go this one teaser shot, I knew that I'd alter my ENTIRE day so long as he could be there.

    The venue is almost the same....I've always dreamed of having my reception there, but knew I could never afford it.  It pays off to ASK and check things out before assuming!!!!  We are getting the venue (includes food, service, AND decor) for a great price, and it all fits the budget!!!!

     
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    HappilyEverAfter54    June 23, 2012   Central Pennsylvania

    My dress! $2000! My catering and cake together are only $2500 and that's my biggest expense!

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    baletrina    May 27, 2012   Chicago, Illinois

    Biggest splurge that is so not necessary - white dance floor.  Can you say obsessed?!  There is a parquet floor at the venue but I am all for getting the shiny white vinyl to cover it.  Total price after deliver: $2800.  Gulp...

    And my new splurge that FI will probably veto is circus performers at the reception.  I originally was going to hire the Bubble Man(does fancy bubbles) but than another Bee mentioned she manages a duo that does circus acts.  Umm.... Awesome!!  Haven't seen pricing for this but know it is definitely a splurge.

     
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    GeekChic    June 2012   Ontario, Canada

    Late night poutine bar as a surprise for the guests...epic :)

     
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    MsNarwhal    July 14, 2012   Greater LA area

    Our photobooth..not necessary but totally cool. We arent doing favors/programs/expensive invitations so it kinda balances itsself out..but it still is $1000 for 6 hours of boothage.

     
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    Carnival_Bride    December 2012   Mid-Atlantic

    Our splurge is the massive family cruise that we're bankrolling so our (immediate) families can join in our big day.

     
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    ashleyyyg    August 2012  

    Our splurge was the photographer. Ours cost us $4,300

     
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    eimajleigh    July 14, 2012   Wedding in San Diego

    Catering!! But I'm a major foodie so it's worth it to me! It will be around $8000 (not including alcohol) possibly over!

     
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    Koolbeans621    January 1, 2017  

    My dress, my budget was under $1000 and I payed like $1260 which is awesome since the the dress retails for $1439(My appt on a weekend were they was taking % off do to truck show). We also pushed the budget on photography but I got a crazy good deal so I don't really count that.

     
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    mojitolove    June 2012  

    im hoping to make our biggest splurge our honeymoon still tbd.  we want to relax on a beach and do some activites like kayaking, eating, exploring, spa, and lots of loving!  right now hawaii and italy/capri are of interest, or some pacific islands...not sure!

     
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    mojitolove    June 2012  

    oh and i should say splurge as in awesome place for as long as possible!

     
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    ella86    October 6, 2012  

    The food and alcohol. We have to spend a minimum of $8500 before tax and gratuity.And we only have 125 people that will likely come.

     
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    maudemaisha       Montreal

    @GeekChic: Thats awesome !! Where are you from dear ? Montrealer right here :) 

     
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    yellowshoe    December 2011   Laguna Beach, CA

    I LOVE the 2nd shoe!!! I've been drooling over them as well. =)

    My splurge was my shoes so I say go for it!!! My parents also were very generous on gifting me my jewelery for my wedding day so those were major splurges as well!

     
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    Bostongrl25    December 2017  

    Ohhh I wish I could splurge on shoes!!

    We put almost half of our total budget towards the catering and alcohol. We are total foodies and are really going all out.

     
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    chasesgirl    December 30, 2011   East Texas

    Totally our photographer. It was the one thing important to FI, and it ended up being close to 1/3 out budget. I also bought expensive (for me) shoes at $70 and spent $60 on these super adorable coffee cups for our cocoa bar, which to me is insane but they are so cute! 

     
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    lovekiss    October 9, 2011   Maryland

    Myself. LOL My dress, accessories for our wedding day, accessories for our day-after photo shoot, and hair and make-up for all of the wedding-related events accounted for the second largest chunk of our wedding-related spending. And I looked effing fabulous! Money well spent. ;)

     
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    Roe    June 9, 2012   PA

    Venue and Photography

    Everything else is cheap, cheap and we got a great deal on the food basically because the caterer really seemed to like us :)

     
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    Miss Orchard    September 8, 2012   Cambridge, MA

    I would say we are splurging on uplighting and chiavari chairs (total cost ~2000 for both)...we'd also like a martini louge with signature drink during cocktail hour and a string quartet but those are like way way splurges if we have the money...

     
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    Miss Orchard    September 8, 2012   Cambridge, MA

    I would say we are splurging on uplighting and chiavari chairs (total cost ~2000 for both)...we'd also like a martini louge with signature drink during cocktail hour and a string quartet but those are like way way splurges if we have the money...

     
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    MrsNeutrino    July 2012  

    Well, I kinda feel like everything is a splurge.. but I might just be cheap! lol! I would say my dress, food and photography. We also hired a string quartet for the cocktail hour.. 

     
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    futuremrsmaista    August 4, 2012   southern NJ

    @MrsNeutrino: Agreed!  I feel like the entire wedding is a splurge!

    I would say our major splurge is lighting.... but that's mostly because most people think lighting is not needed to begin with.  We're also splurging on our cinematographer.

     
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    MrsWilson2012    December 2012   DW St. Thomas USVI

    My splurge is definitely my photographer and honeymoon! =]

     
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    coffeegal85    August 11, 2012   Ohio

    Photographers and photobooth favor.

     
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    FutureJessicaMcB    December 17, 2011   Canada

    Ugh, definitely my dress. We were originally having a much bigger wedding when I bought my $2,000 Maggie Sottero Georgina. Now the entire wedding costs less than my dress. A giant budget fail on my part.

     
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    scadadle15    May 5, 2012   Santa Monica (wedding in Savannah, GA)

    My dress

    What was/is your splurge for your wedding  ???? :  wedding shoes flats Memydiana1

    And Chiavari chairs

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    pinkfrog    October 20, 2012   South Jersey

    The photographer and the DJ.  Our reception/caterer came in right on budget (and included a top shelf open bar), and my dress and stuff were well within reason ($550 for the dress, $200 for the shoes, which I guess is a splurge but I'll wear them til they fall apart, and it's not unheard of for me to spend that kind of money on really good shoes).

    We figured, people remember the food, people remember the music, and we'll have the pictures forever. Other than that, no one's going to remember/care except us.

     
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    atomlins81    September 10, 2011  

    Our splurge was the veune (almost 1/4 the budget of the wedding) and the honeymoon.

     

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