What wedding questions are you SO SICK OF???

posted 2 years ago in Beehive
Post # 2
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1154 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

1. Are you going to have a cake? 

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2. Are you going to wear ______? Really, you should wear _______ (certain color, style veil, dress, shoes, whatever).

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3. Why a destination wedding? You know no one is going to go to that right? (mostly from family, meanwhile we have 70 confirmed guests (all friends and immediate family) and invitations were just put in the mail, so I’m sure we’ll have a few surprises when people actually RSVP) 

Post # 3
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2225 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I get a lot of people asking why we are getting married at the location we chose (it’s about 2 hours away from where we live). If people knew us, they would know why we picked it. And once they see our venue, they’ll understnad why we love it 🙂 It’s just kinda weird because strangers usually ask if we are from there and the answer is “no… we just… really like it there.”

Post # 4
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1917 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I get sick of people asking how much I spent on my wedding dress. I had a higher budget, big deal. I got what I wanted and it’s none of their business. 

Post # 7
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138 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Oh my god, I’m sick of all them. Especially, “What’s new with wedding planning??” What, do you really want to hear about the five barely distinguishable meetings I had with DJs this week?

I get people are just interested, too, but the nitty gritty stuff is just not that interesting to discuss. And I don’t want to rehash all of the conversations I have with vendors overrrr and overrrr. Making a decision on who to hire is taxing enough!

Post # 8
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1583 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

My wedding is on Saturday. I am asked several times a day if I have much left to do. And if I’m nervous. Please don’t remind me of what I have left to do lol.

Post # 10
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769 posts
Busy bee

I am kind of sick of the constant “how’s the wedding planning going” because that is all everyone wants to talk about. I do not even get a hello anymore! 10 more months..

Post # 11
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889 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2015 - On a Cliff Overlooking the Bay, Florida

cls9q:  Because my FI and I work for the same company EVERYONE keep askng “how’s the planning going” and when i say well it’s dont were just waiting till March to actually get married now. They FREAK out when i tell them everything is done planning wise then they start going down a list so i can tell them Yes thats done, Yes thats done etc….. I have to constantly remind people I’m an event planner at work and I’ve planned 7 wedding for friedns before.

It just bugs me when people 2nd guess me and want to make sure I’ve dont everthing i need to do…..Umm it’s my wedding I have all the check list you don’t ned to be another checklist for me Thank you! LOL

Post # 12
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904 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 1975

cls9q:  “Why couldn’t we all be there when you eloped?” 

Well… If you were all there, it would have been a big traditional wedding.

“Well no one really wants to elope!”

Oh no… Some of us do… Some of us really do.

lol. Love this thread!! Might not be about wedding planning per say, but still the 10th degree on inquisitions from just about everyone.

Post # 13
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558 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2015 - Alexander Homestead

cls9q:  The one I hate most of all is, “I’m getting an invitation, right?” … :-O!! I never in my life anticipated so many people would try to invite themselves, and I mean EVERYONE! – clients, friends of friends, my MOM’s co-workers, the list goes on and on!!! I never had such gall in my life and they love to put you on the spot wih an audience when they ask! Only 9 months to go …

Post # 14
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12 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2015

“Am I invited?”

“When are you going to start a diet?”

So hard to choose which one annoys me the most.

Post # 15
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558 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2015 - Alexander Homestead

FutureMrsHouy:  YES! I realized I made a lot of people un happy when FI and I began planning on the low before we were even engaged causing me to be 50% DONE with planning by the engagement and then 90% done within 3 months of the engagement. Lol! I mustve really ruined it for those that had plans of being involved in MY planning process. I never interfered wih theirs and they obviously faired just fine. I think they had so much fun and it was over before they knew it that they want to relive it through me and have me do all the things they didnt get to. Oh well, that’s not how things work with me unfortunately so I guess in the meantime, they have no choice but to live with it. FI and I did things just as we wanted and I wouldn’t have it any other way. 🙂

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