(Closed) What worries you the most about being a mom?

posted 6 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Losing myself. I’m very independant and hope that when I have my first child I still make the time/put in the effort to regularly go out and about with friends.

 

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I worry about worrying. 🙂 I worry a lot as is – I can only imagine what it will be like when I have a baby to think about all the time.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I can’t really say I’m worried about being a mom… but I cringe at the thought of treating my children as I see people do their own these days. My nephew gets under my in-laws skin and I would hate myself if I were to feel the way they have expressed they feel about him sometimes. I’m so beyond blessed to possibly have the opportunity to be a SAHM!

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper

I’m already a mom but my biggest worry was functioning with less sleep haha! It seems silly now but I am someone who does not do well without at least 8 hours. Miraculously I adjusted.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I worry that I won’t be able to be a mum like mine is.. I worry I couldn’t support them how i should or be a best friend and just get it right and raise them properly. Also, in a completely selfish way, I’m worried about pregnancy body too. As someone who has always had body issues, that’s the hardest issue I’m having when deciding if now is the right time to become a mum. 

Post # 8
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m worried about losing my identity. I’ve had a full, interesting, incredible life thus far. I want to make sure I don’t lose that edge, and that I continue to be that example for my future kid(s).

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

I worry about everything. i’m a huge worry wart… i’m really worried about doing something wrong and having other parents judge me. 

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I worry too about losing my identity and making sure my kid grows up alright thru school years as I understand things are so different nowadays.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I worry about everything… losing sleep, losing myself, balancing my career with family life, having the energy/$/love/patience, being “older”…

Post # 13
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

I worry about not having enough money to provide for my children and not be able to balance everything. I worry about getting two overwhelmed int he beginning to take care of my child, 2 dogs, husband, house, etc.

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Honestly? I worry the most that I wont be able to be a mom.

I think once I am one, I will feel overwhelmed, but so happy to be one that I wont care. I just worry everyday, perhaps for no real reason, that I someday wont be able to get pregnant.

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