What would be appropriate?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
3570 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I would bring a gift card for them to go out to dinner or something like that. 

Post # 4
1631 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I agree that you singing is plenty gift 🙂

Post # 5
2385 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I think your service is your gift, at least that’s how I would feel as a bride. We needed some help as well and our friends jumped at the chance to help us out rather than give a gift. Really, I think it’s better than a physical gift that will get put in a cupboard and forgotten… If you’re bringing a +1 though I would give them something small, like a card with a giftcard in it maybe (movie tickets + popcorn, or a favorite restaurant for a date night)…

Post # 6
42135 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would take a nice card.

Post # 7
1168 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I think you singing is an amazing gift.  If it were me I would still bring a gift- not anything crazy but maybe something sentimental like a beautiful picture frame for a picture. Or maybe get the lyrics of the song your are singing printed out on pretty paper ( staples, kinkos can help) and then frame it for them. 

Post # 8
626 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I think if for sure you’re brining a plus one then maybe get a smaller gift. I wouldn’t expect a gift but knowing how much per head costs that is nice they included a +1

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