What would you change about your SO?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

@MrsBluth:  His stubborness. and sometimes he can be a bit insensitive. LoL

Me, im too sensitive and need to let things go and not dwell

Post # 4
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4441 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

HIS LISTENING!

 

OMG! I swear I spend 90% of my energy repeating myself and half the time we’re talking I end up walking away saying “why do I even speak to you?!”

Post # 6
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442 posts
Helper bee

He talks SO MUCH. I wish that he had the ability to be quiet and/or change the subject for more than two minutes when I ask. 

Or that he didn’t have such an obsessive personality. Once he gets into something, there’s no turning back until he gets sick of it. And then he will take a break and go back and the cycle starts again.

Post # 7
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567 posts
Busy bee

@MrsBluth:  I wish when my fiance saw a hot broadcaster who was a playmate or a hot actress who did playboy..that he wouldn’t have such an urge to look her up & see her naked 🙁

He only does this like once every month or every other month, but it bothers me so much:(  I know a lot of guys think other girls are attractive or when they find out some hot chick on tv did playboy they want to see out of curosity what she looks like naked,but it really hurts my feelings, because I don’t ever need or want to look up hot guys I see in movies naked…I know guys are wired differently but this is really the only thing I wish I could change about him 🙁  Makes me feel like I am not enough & I have told him this over and over again 🙁

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@MrsBluth:  sometimes he talks A LOT. like tells me really detailed stories about people i will never meet, and really indepth history about his country. i try to tell myself that so many women BEG their men to talk so i should be happy, but sometimes i just want silence. lol

Post # 9
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284 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I feel terrible saying this ut I would change my fiance’s past. He made a lot of mistakes and although he is great and his mistakes made him who is today I think they did cause a lot of issues in his life! 

I would also change his stuborness, I swear that man would fight his point to the grave even if he was wrong.

Also, I miss the days when he sent me sweet texts and didn’t fart around me all the time. Lol

Post # 10
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Helper bee

@mchitt329:  Oh god that too! I’ve come to terms with this recently. In addition to being bad at listening, he’s bad at remembering things. I really wonder sometimes why I tell him anything haha. I’ve been traveling to see family for the past week and a half, and the day before I left he got all awkward and embarrassed and asked me where I was traveling to because he couldn’t remember and felt really bad about it. I told him at least 3 times and knew exactly where he was traveling during the same time period. Drives me crazy, but I just have to sigh and tell him again and try not to be annoyed.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I would change his inability to see mess. He honestly does not see the mess. It doesn’t bother him, it doesn’t compute as messy. And it drives me bananas.

Post # 12
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182 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

His relationship/responses to his parents. I could totally put up with everything else! lol

Post # 13
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Newbee

@MrsBluth:  His *lovely* ice chewing habit and his inability to get any of his clothes into the laundry basket. Other than that, my man is awesome sauce. 

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

@juliana192:  OMG that is so bad!  I guess I should count my blessing in that SOMETIMES he remembers what I say….

 

Post # 15
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5207 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

I would change his short temper. When it comes to teasing he can dish it out but he can’t take it. Also his eating habits. They disgust me.

Post # 16
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284 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@nadnuk:  haha ohh mine does that too! Except he claims to see it after he’s made a mess! lol

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