Post # 1
My MIL wants my daughter to be 8 lbs because all of her children except one was right around and the only one that was 6 lbs was one of her twins. She carried them to full term too. Anyways, she knows that my other daughter was only 5 lbs 14 oz. She thinks that babies around that size are too little. I was just wondering what your opions on this is.
Post # 3
Any baby who comes out healthy and breathing is the perfect size. Are the doctors concerned about your first baby’s size? If not, ignore her comment as a meddling MIL.
Post # 4
I’m no parent, but lots of my friends are having babies, and anything between about 5 – 9 sounds “normal” to me. Anything bigger than 9 pounds and I feel like the reaction is “Wow, big baby!”, and when I think 4 pounds, I think “That’s tiny!”
If your doctor isn’t concerned, I wouldn’t worry. Tell your MIL to stay out of your uterus 😉
Post # 5
I forget the range, but I thought there was a “normal range” something like 5.5-9 pounds. I think a lot of it depends on your size, etc. If your other kiddo was healthy, then I wouldn’t be concerned at all. Don’t let her get to you!
In fact, my baby was 8.5 pounds, and they were worried about his blood sugar. (He was fine…I’m big and hubby was big, too.)
Post # 6
Babys are ALL different. Theres SO many factors that go into a babys size such as mothers weight, Mothers health during pregnancy, placenta placement, both parents birth weight and on and on. Around 40 weeks you can have a rough estimate that a baby will be around the 7lbs mark. Give or take a pound is completely normal and healthy. My son was born at 3lbs 11oz at 33 weeks. At 33 weeks he should of been somewhere near the 4 1/2 lb range. He would of been small no matter what time he was born.
As long as a baby comes out breathing and alert then the size doesn’t matter. A healthy baby is a perfect baby. No matter what the size.
Post # 7
My son was only 5 pounds 9 ounces but was perfectly healthy. Every baby is different. Most of my families babies are all between that range and 7 pounds – none over 8. It is different for everyone. it is silly for her to expect that all babies are going to be the same. I wouldnt change my tiny little treasure for anything – he was so freaking small and cute.
Post # 8
The CDC defines low birthweight as less than 5 lbs 8 oz. (in recent years, the % of low birthweight babies in the US is around 8%), and the cutoff for “very low birthweight” is 3 lbs 4 oz, which accounts for about 1.5% of US births.
Post # 9
My work supervisor just gave birth to an 11 lb 1 oz baby. That sounds terrifying to me. I’m definitely hoping mine is closer to the 5 lb 14 oz side of the scale 🙂
Post # 10
Your MIL needs to mind her own business.
Post # 11
Just a question, but how can you control what your baby weighs when they come out? I mean, yes you can give the right nutrition, etc, but if your baby is 7 pounds it’s likely not your fault. Is you MIL saying that you need to have an 8 pound baby for a reason? Just curious.
Post # 12
I was over 9 lbs but grew up to be a twig.
My daughter was 7 lbs 11 oz which is fairly normal I think. But we saw babies between 4-10 lbs born while we were there.
Post # 13
i think she was mainly joking but she says her first baby was 8lbs and so that set her basis on what a healthy baby looks like, honestly i don’t want a baby 8 lbs, i’m terrified of pain! I think she is mainly joking because i told her she will get what she gets. lol She did say with her son that was 6 lbs she made him eat alot because she thought he was too small, I don’t want her to do that with our baby. I don’t know if she will it’s just a concern i have.
Post # 14
All I know is I was 10 lbs 6oz when I was born, and I’m perfectly healthy!
Post # 15
Hmm I think her comment would irritate me!
My son was 6lbs 3oz at birth, when we left the hospital he was 5lbs 5oz. He was in preemie clothes forever! But I’m tiny (4′ 10.5″), I don’t think I could handle anything bigger!
Post # 16
I was born 8 weeks early at 3 lbs 5 oz. The first time my mom held me I was only 3 lbs. Perfectly healthy, was breathing on my own that same night.
My sister has 3 kids, all were over 10 lbs when they were born (and they were all born 2-3 weeks early). However she does have Type I diabetes and they normally have big babies. (So far none of her kids show signs of diabetes which is great!)
As long as baby is healthy, weight shouldn’t matter.