What would you do?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
Member
141 posts
Blushing bee

@lesliesmithson:  Yaaa. To me, that’s like saying he doesn’t want to eat cake before the wedding, but is ok with eating cupcakes. 

Does the oral sex go both ways? If it’s at least making you both happy, then I don’t see a huge issue with it (other than really not being pure abstinence), but if it’s one way only and you’re not happy with that, then I agree with your choice to stop than until the wedding too. 

Post # 4
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5207 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

@lesliesmithson:  There’s no loophole for oral just because vaginal is against his religion. Keep your mouth off his ding dong until he’s willing to reciprocate!

Post # 5
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1802 posts
Buzzing bee

I do consider oral sex to be sex, but I know that not everyone feels that way. I know that oral sex usually leads to things going further, so that could make things go too far if you’re trying to wait. If I give SO a BJ that’s not usually all we do, so yeah..

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