- 7 years ago
So I’ve never had a “none relationship” with a family member, so I don’t know how to act.
We are estranged from husbands mom and sister due to the issues durning our engagement and finally the last straw at the wedding. My husband and I agreed, we will not have any kind of relationship with them, and we told them this as well. His mother tried contacting us on our Honeymoon to lash out at us, but we ignored her, and since our wedding a little over a month ago we have had no contact and plan not to.
That being said, my husbands sister’s birthday is coming up. Do we send a card? My feelings are no ( but I am also still so angry at them for everything and will probably never forgive them, but furthermore, they haven’t even tried to make it right so I think why should we send a card. I know this will be very tough for my husband as they once had a close relationship before she became nutty and nasty towards us. I know he will feel torn with the fact that it is his sister, but he will also feel that why should he send a card. They have never acknoweldge me or my birthday either. We also will not have any contact with them durning the Holidays, so again why send a card? Thoughts?