- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012
I want to find a way to incorporate my father, grandfather, and step-dad on my big day. My father has not really been there for me for most of my life, but over the last year we have started to attempt a fresh start. I am much closer to my step-dad and my grandfather. My grandparents essentially raised us since my mom had to spend so much time working after her divorce. My grandpa has been the closest thing to a father I have had. Prior to talking with my father again I was going to have my grandfather give me away (my mom wouldn’t do it ) and do my dad/daughter dance with my step-dad. While I’m nowhere near having a great relationship with my father I feel like I want to include hime somehow.
I’ve thought about having my dad and step-dad give me away, but I am starting to feel real uncomfortable with having my dad do this. I don’t like the idea of splitting up a dance between the two either. It seems like something that would be choppy and possibly confusing. Help please! Anybody else have this kind of problem?
Oh should also mention I don’t want him doing a reading. He tends to start going on about how even though he abandoned us he missed us and really wanted to be there. When he starts doing that I just get upset.