- 7 years ago
I know most of you followed my post pre the wedding and know how nutty my husbands mother and sister had been, well long story short, they showed up the day of the RD, caused a major scene, his sister, screamed and cried in middle of the dinner about how she was no longer number 1 ( she is 27 years old) his mother backhanded my husbands father, she was inches away from hitting me while telling me to Shut the F up and calling me names ( because I told her that she was acting out of line and today was not the day for this), while my husband literally had to pick her up and remove her, he told her she must leave, my family was telling her to leave, she went at my mom, calling my Mom and his Dad’s gf a whore. I was a total mess in hysterics, my then FI was a mess, she wouldn’t leave, but just keep raging, we finally called the cops and then she left.
I didn’t want her at the ceremony so we called the local police and had everyone on stand by, well she walked in 5 mins before I did, so we felt it was best to let it go and not cause an issue, we were going to see how she acted. She thankfully didn’t do anything- I think she was pretty shaken because we called the cops on her. She never once said she was sorry or even came up to me, not once, it was almost like Me and my husband didn’t exsist. She acted like an idiot at the reception, trying to grind up on all the men, but she only made herself look stupid. Despit it all we had a great day and just ignored her.
We left for our honeymoon, and 5 days into it, she emailed a horrible, nasty email, calling me names, my mom and my family names, telling us that we needed to send a written apology to her and HER family, that our wedding was the worst day of her life. She really is disgusting, but anyway, when we got home we went through our cards. She did give us a card, with a $50 home depot gift card. My Husband felt like it was of course only a gift towards him and not for US ( he is a contractor) and we felt that we have no desire to send her a thank you ( in her nasty email, she brought up her giving him the $50 giftcard and how selfish we are) Yet she went an invited 11 extra ppl to our wedding and they JUST showed up, and she refused to pay for them, so WE had to.
We sent back the giftcard to her, we want NO part of her in our life, and she is not welcome in our life. I’m sure us sending back the GC is going to piss her off, but we don’t care, we are so disgusted by her. So my question after my long rant….do we send a Thank you? We don’t want, and feel that why should we thank her for coming to her our wedding and acting like a WT nut job.
Thoughts on this?