What would you do? Wedding planning HELP!

posted 4 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
4525 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Royalton White Sands

Personally, I’d have the smaller wedding. Time with your daughter is so much more important!

Post # 4
45245 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Bebedreamr:  No question for me, I would have the small wedding. My opinion is from the point of view of someone who was married and divorced, now married again.

It is easy to get carried away and focus on the wedding, rather than the marriage.

In your sitiuation, having a smalll wedding makes sense in so many ways. It helps to deal with the issue of where to cut off invitations re the aunts, uncles etc., it frees up money for your family rather than going to vendors, it would enable both of you to cut back on your work hours and enjoy time together, and most importantly, it gives you options re employment and mothering your daughter.


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