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What would you rather listen to during dinner?

posted 2 years ago in Music
  • poll: What would you rather listen to during dinner?
    Dinner background music through speakers : (25 votes)
    66 %
    A live cellist : (13 votes)
    34 %
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    Tulip61110    June 11, 2010   Philadelphia

    Our reception is in a large room in a boat converted into a restaurant.  I have two options for music during dinner.  One is to have "dinner" type music played on low through the ceiling speakers.

    The second is to have a cellist perform.  I think it sounds like a cool idea, but I'm concerned about how it would work out...whether it would be too loud, or sound strange just having a cellist and no other instrument being played.  I am clueless when it comes to live music like this.

    As a guest, what would you rather hear?

     
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    VagabondGurl    August 7, 2010   Wedding: NH; Living: CA

    I'd prefer live music, anytime.  =D

     
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    roxy821    August 21, 2010  

    I love the idea of the cellist. That sounds wonderful. And I am assuming you will be listening to the music on speakers for the rest of the night si this will be a great mix.

     
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    Jacqi    February 28, 2009  

    I voted dinner music. I don't think the cello is worth the extra expense. Hopefully people will be talking and enjoying themselves and not even notice what type of music is playing. I can't say I have any memories about the dinner music from any of the weddings I've attended.

     
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    Mattel    November 6, 2010   WNY

    I love live music, but I think music through the speakers would be sufficient. I've been to many weddings and honestly, I never pay attention to the music during dinner. I'm usually too busy talking to the people around me to listen to the music :) You could probably spend the money elsewhere.

     
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    Gemstone    July 2011   Cincinnati

    I personally love live music and I love string instruments. However, for a dinner in which people will be eating/talking/preoccupied, I'm not sure a solo cellist would be the best fit. It would be lovely, so I don't think it would be "bad" if you chose that, but like Jacqi, I am not sure if guests pay enough attention to the music during dinner.

     
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    alivoo01    September 18, 2010   Dallas, TX

    I love the sound of a string instrument in a romantic/intimate setting such as wedding!!

     
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    Melissabegins    December 12, 2009  

    I love the cellist idea, but more for a time with mingling - like a cocktail hour. WHen people are seated and chowing down, they wouldn't notice as much as if they were mingling around the musician / bar / chatting.

     
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    Tulip61110    June 11, 2010   Philadelphia

    Well I wouldn't even consider the live cellist option normally, but we have changed things around for our reception, so now we are having a DJ play during our cocktail hour rather than a cellist.  I'm thinking that since we already booked her for an hour during the cocktail hour and can't use her then anymore...then maybe I should consider having her play for an hour during dinner.  So it really wouldn't be an extra expense.

     
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    shaydenise    October 30, 2010  

    I'm definitely a fan of the live music option!

     
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    Chillmer    May 30, 2010   Milwaukee

    As someone who's played cello for 21 years, I gotta go with the cellist!  I would love if I attended a wedding with a cellist.

     

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