(Closed) what would you think of an ex that tried to get a job where you work?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
46225 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

She should not feel at all guilty about what she did. This guy sounds unbalanced and that’s the last thing they need in the workplace. Hopefully the person doing the hiring has the common sense not to hire him.

Post # 4
1077 posts
Bumble bee

This guy sounds like a creep, she has every right to be uncomfortable. I used to work in food service and I had an ex that would show up there all the time to talk to me. Luckily I had an awesome manager who would kick him out.

Post # 5
868 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

That’s an 11 on the ubercreepy scale.  I am a bit of a paranoid person in general and I would give her the standard safety advice of moving around her work schedule if she can, making sure she doesn’t go out to her car without a buddy, etc.  Better safe than sorry.  This guy is a wingnut.

Post # 7
1077 posts
Bumble bee

@Firie:  Ugh. Honestly, this sounds like a stalking situation. I would talk to your boss about it too, sometimes it’s hard to talk about this sort of thing when it’s happening to you.

For the record you’re being an awesome coworker for being so concerned about her wellbeing!

Post # 9
5547 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2011

Crrrrrrrreeeeeeeppppppeeeerrrr. I hope  your manager has the sense to realize he isn’t going to be a good hire. And your friend should have zero guilt. Unless your workplace is the only place on the planet that has his field, which I’m going to make the leap it isn’t, that is totally stalker-ish.

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