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What would you wear?

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    GaBGal    September 25, 2010  

    FI is a groomsman in a wedding in October (so I have plenty of time to find a dress if I need to get a new one). The wedding website says Black Tie or Barong Optional. The wedding is interfaith Filipino-Catholic and Jewish.

    I have a green dress I wore to a wedding in May, thinking it would be rewearable for this wedding but I'm not sure. Its a Calvin Klein kelly green sheath dress, it has a slight tulip skirt that hits at the knee (the style is very similar to a Nina Ricci style dress).

    What do you think? What would you wear or suggest to "avoid"?

     
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    Habibi      

    I prefer to be in a long gown at black tie functions. However, etiquette does not require you to do so so wear whatever fancy party dress you are comfortable in. Your green dress sounds lovely!

     
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    snmcdowell    9-13-08   Chicago

    Sounds similar to my wedding, and most of the women wore long gowns with a shawl.

     
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    happilywaiting       Massachusetts

    I'm with Habibi, I always wear a long gown to black tie weddings. Your dress sounds beautiful, but I know for me, I tend to notice the few women with short dresses at BT events since the majority wear long dresses.

     
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    Chela429    3/29/09   Long Island, NY

    I would wear a black dress (long or short) or a long evening gown in a darker color such as plum, midnight, emerald, etc.

     
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    GaBGal    September 25, 2010  

    well its black tie optional, not black tie. I know the bride will have many Filipino relatives there so I don't want to be inappropriate (obviously I won't be wearing a Barong). Maybe ill see closer to the date what a few of the other gals are wearing. Long dresses tend to look a little silly on me since I'm a little short.

     
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    mouse    September 11, 2009   Austin, TX

    I think your dress will be lovely!  I agree, you can go long or short, as long as it's somewhat dressy.  Of course, you can dress it up with jewelry, fancy high heels, and an elegant updo.

     

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