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I've been to many Southern weddings and eveyone gives a gift from the registry. Something from their china pattern is probably most popular.

Did the couple register?

We're pretty much like every other kind of bride out there.  My favorite non-registry things I've gotten so far were cookbooks and a picture frame with some of our engagement pictures in it.  You could always go on the registry, see what sort of kitchen things they registered for (crockpot, baking dishes, etc) and get cookbooks to coordinate.  Oh, I also got this adorable frame from FSIL where you put a small picture of the bride and groom as children on one side and a wedding photo on the other. 

Or go the fun route and get some board or yard games?

I would only recommend going for a non registry gift if you know their taste very well, or if the gift will be returnable . Honestly, so far we will be returning the non registry gifts we have been given. They are just not things we would ever use.

I have given a generous gift certificate to a nice restaurant and that has been a popular alternative. A cashmere blanket in a neutral color seems like something everyone likes as well, but they are at least $150-$200.

I'd look at their registry and think about the couple in general.  Are they modern and would not appreciate an antique treasure or are they do they love heirlooms and traditions.  If they love traditions or if their registry seems to reflect a interest in fine dining or interest in hosting formal fancier dinner parties.  Then I'd check out the local antique shop.  You might discover a beautiful set of antique linens or a beautiful set of crystal.  They also would probably appreciate some sterling silver!