(Closed) What’s suppose to be a beautiful process…is becoming a NIGHTMARE!

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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  • Wedding: November 2011

I am so sorry to hear about all of this. I know exactly how you are feeling and just wanted to let you know that I agree with you, neither of us deserve to have to deal with the in-laws durign our SPECIAL time. After all of the time you have been with your future husband, have they ever been a problem until now. From my point of view I hope that you carried out your wedding plans it seems that you do love this man very much and it seems like they shouldn’t be an issue for you. Everyone keeps telling me it is my weddng, and I get to make all of the choices. But for some reason I feel like I have to make everyone else happy, so for your sakes — DO WHAT YOU WANT.. invite whoever you want, and be with who you want. You know that you love this man and your children, don’t let the family stuff bring you down. I hope things are better now and you have everything you wanted for your guest list.

Post # 4
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To be honest, and maybe I am out of line, but I will not attend an event my father attends. This has meant missing Christmas parties, Aunt’s weddings and the like. I’d say 90% of the time, my family puts me and my siblings first and does not invite him anywhere around us. But my father was a truly wretched, abusive man. If it something that serious, then I would listen to your Future In Laws. I’m not saying don’t invite him, but please try to understand if they just can’t do it and choose not to attend.

If it is not anything that serious and they just don’t like that he’s moved on and remarried, then it is your day and by all means you and FI should make the guest list.

 

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