What's the difference?

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
470 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

@LeonardLady:  Well, for me an argument is where we have a discussion where we don’t agree. We dont yell, name call, blame or say hurtful things when we argue. It’s just a different oF opinion. 

Fighting is the opposite. Fighting is where we yell, scream or name call. 

We don’t fight often, but we do argue sometimes.. 

This is just the way we see it though. 

Post # 4
2232 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@Brooke1226:  +1. Argument= Back and forth disagreement, but clean, not mean, not bitching each other out. Fight= Someone’s going to get hurt.

Post # 5
1167 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

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Exactly what they said!

Post # 6
3202 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

Agree with PPs! Fighting usually involves me crying, haha. Arguing is just disagreeing, sometimes more or less firmly, but without actually getting too emotionally involved.

Post # 7
5207 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

@LeonardLady:  Arguing is disagreeing on the issue at hand. You can argue about one topic at a time. Fighting is when it escalates to something emotional like name calling, anger, and resentment.

Post # 9
3557 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Judging by pps definitions (which I agree with) I’m not sure Fi and I have ever fought. We’ve never screamed back and forth at each other or called each other names. We do disagree and discussions can get rather tense but the only time I’ve ever yelled at FI while upset is to get his attention and make him get a handle on himself (aka stop throwing things) and I’ve only really had to to that twice. We usually talk things out when they come up and we don’t bottle things up until we explode.

Post # 10
22124 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2011

I agree with everything you guys are saying too!

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