- 6 years ago
Now, just to clarify. I’m not making a joke here. I don’t mean “gay” to mean “lame” or “stupid”, because I hate when people use them as synonyms. I mean what is the most homosexual thing your SO has ever done that made you raise an eyebrow.
SO works with both straight and gay men, and one of his closest friends is gay and apparently used to have a crush on him. He told me one night they were out at dinner, and SO would be funny if they pretended they were on a date just to make everyone else around them uncomfortable. Apparently, all the straight couples got candles on their tables, and SO flagged the waiter over and asked “Hey, where’s OUR candle?”…haha?
I know he’s just joking around but this is kind of a sensitive subject with me because the man I dated before him actually was gay, and the more I dated him the more obvious it became. I could tell he was lying to me about it and when I finally called him out on it, and he admitted that he had been with a man. Before he swore up and down he was straight and said he only pretended to be gay at work (he worked in retail) because “the girls feel less threatened when I offer to help them in the dressing room”. Yeah, nice try.
SO is the complete opposite of the other guy in every other way, but it still skeeves me out when he tells me stuff like this. Do your SO’s do stuff like this with their friends, or should I be worried?