(Closed) What's the last really dumb thing you got mad at your SO over?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
1630 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Oh god this happens all of the time! haha


Last dumb thing we fought about was me wanting my fiancee to come home and he wanted to go out after work…needy much? = ME!

Post # 4
3063 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

A few nights ago I had a really realistic dream that my fiance cheated on me. I told him about it the next day and he asked, “Well, was she hot?”.

Post # 5
605 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2014 - Brazil Room

I’ve been letting his choice in wedding band really really bother me. It’s just so awful, I don’t think it reflects us as a couple at all and I just hate it. I’ve told him that I don’t like it… but he wants me to compromise… but there’s no real compromise to the specifics that he wants. He basically wants me to cave.

I made sure that he liked my engagement ring… why can’t he make sure I like his ring? Ugh!! I know it’s not that big of a deal… but it’s been bugging me like crazy!

Post # 6
853 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

He got really drunk Friday night (almost NEVER happens anymore) and slept ALL FREAKING DAY on Saturday. He got up to get Taco Bell for lunch and went back to sleep. He had stuff to do around the house (I was working) and did none of it. I was super pissed.

Post # 7
2781 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Him coming to bed at 3am and waking me up when he did so. I’m not one of those girls that has to go to bed at the same time, we usually do go to bed at the same time on weeknights though since we both have to be up at the same time. 

Last night he stayed up later, and when he came to bed at 3 he ended up waking me up. I told him off and said he wasn’t allowed to do that anymore. What can I say, i didn’t appreciate being awakened at 3 am when i have to be up at 6.

Post # 8
1642 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I asked him yesterday to pick up a few things for me at the grocery because he was going there. He told me it depends. I said, “On what?” He told me, “Well, if the store has it, and how expensive it is.”

Not a fight, but that just irked me. I’m not buying platinum plated armor at the grocery, dude. Just some eggplant.

Post # 9
2107 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I pick Darling Husband up from the bus station when it’s raining, as the bus stop he gets off at normally is about a 20 minute walk away.  Yesterday, he decided to try and meet me at a new meeting place, but didn’t tell me until he was already on his way there.  Even though the new location is closer, it’s also more inconvenient in terms of getting there, and I was irrationally angry about it. 

Post # 10
2419 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

He jumps on me in the morning if he thinks I should be awake with him. On Tuesday, I was off due to the Hurricane and he had to go to work and at 7:30 he came in and jumped on the bed and tried to make me wake up. I am not a morning person whatsoever, so when I’m awoken against my will, I get quite cranky.

Post # 11
808 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

last night his 4 year old got really scared at one of the houses we went to for trick or treat so I started singing “these are a few of my favorite things” to her (we’d just watched the sound of music together about a week ago) and he, jokingly said “I thought this was supposed to be a happy song” poking fun at my singing voice. I told him he was mean, he said he was just joking. He jokes alot, sometimes I don’t like it much and other times I adore it

Post # 12
1342 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Teeth whitening for the wedding…  We hit the one month mark today and I am out of control!

Post # 13
275 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I told him we had to be at my neices birthday party yesterday at a certain time he said ok Ill be there on time I just have to stop and pick something up at the store…. almost 2 hours after the party started he finally shows up……Yeaaaaa not a happy person that night!

Post # 14
2023 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

My FH bought us a house (he’s the best – I swear!) and it needs a few updates that arent necessary for function, but we’re doing it anyway.  I asked for one inch masking tape to use with this tool to help tape and paper areas for protection from paint.  He brought me 1.5″ painters tape.  I wasnt happy and I was being over dramatic.  The tool wouldnt work with that tape… and I specifically said what type I needed. 

I felt like Jennifer Annistin in The Breakup and her twelve lemon centerpiece.

But like I said, he’s the best… even if he doesnt pay attention to details sometimes.

Post # 15
79 posts
Worker bee

I couldn’t find a certain bra that I wanted to wear the other night.  I kept asking Fiance if he had seen it or if someone took it.  I think a surprise bridal shower is on the way so I was convinced that he gave it to someone so they would know my measurements for wedding night lingerie.  I flipped out and decided that I wasn’t going out that night… what a b*tch! But in my defense I was hangry (hungry + angry) and PMSing big time! I get so irrational once a month lol

Post # 16
6021 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

because he left two piles of dirty clothes in two differnt spots. Neither of the spots was his hamper. really?! yea… and btw his hamper is literally like 20 ft from where the one pile was and about 15 ft from the other. its like he stopped, took off half his clothes, walked across the room, took off the rest, then got different clothes on. It was after a long day, my son was driving me mad, and I just lost it 🙁  I called him a man child and said even our seven year old knows where dirty clothes go. I was a terrible beast! but I guess I just hit my limit that day and with the whole clothes thing since he does it ALL THE DAMN TIME. He just kind of stood there, quietly not making any sudden movements until I was done yelling and dramtically throwing the dirty clothes into the hamper…. then quietly moved forward once i was done and gave me a hug. thats when I just burst out crying like a disturbed child and wailed “no one helps me with anythingggg!!!! it’s not that hard! just throw the flippin clothes in the hamper!!! wahhhh!!!!”.

I had a meltdown. It wasn’t pretty Embarassed

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