(Closed) What's the longest you & dh/fi/so have gone without sex?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Three weeks. He deploys often, and his deployments are short but he is gone more than he is home. So, we go three weeks without sex on a very regular basis.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Well we stopped for 7 months before the wedding but we intentionally did that. As far as just not having it…maybe three weeks.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

A month I think, it has happened twice. The first time I was just about to give birth/just had a baby. The second time was not to long ago, just neither of us were in the mood for a while. Then we both kind of “woke up” one day and we were like “woah! What’s going in here, let’s get busy!” lol

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2017

About 8 weeks without, excluding the 6 month period we were together prior to losing our virginities to each other. We have been having sex once ever 4-6 weeks consistently for about 2 years now. In the last month or so, things have been getting better since my mental health has improved!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

We’ve gone as long as almost two weeks. I don’t know the exact day count, but I know it did not reach 14. It’s usually a too-tired for whatever reason thing. We both have ocassional sleeping issues, so that’s the usual culprit. Sometimes it’s work. 

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

There are days around our house where dinner seems like a feat of strength…so sex would be a miracle worthy of being cannonized by the Pope…bear in mind that Mr. 99 has endured many, many reconstructive surgeries…but the longest was 6 months…trust me, I didn’t like it, but it wasn’t because we didn’t want to…physicall it just was not going to happen without hurting someone…a lot

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

We are LDR, so the longest was 4 months. It felt like a year.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@roweboat:  I can’t remember exactly, but I know it was several months.  We were in a long distance relationship during our first 2 years together, and sometimes we couldn’t see each other for a few months.  

I sometimes feel like a bad fiancee as well, especially lately.  My sex drive is practically nonexistent these days.  To be fair, though, I’ve been pretty sick for the past couple of weeks … That definitely doesn’t help!

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think one time it was around a month. I think I got my period, and then shortly after DH got really sick (like, down there – docs still don’t know what caused it but it was a male thing, not contagious) and he couldn’t so much as touch the area until he was completely healed. 🙁

Otherwise I think it’s about 2 weeks. 

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

5 months. Dang deployments. Tongue Out

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Its about 10 weeks for us, after i had had an operation. i was specifically told not to have sex for at least that period of time By my doctor. Get out of jail free card, win! Lol.

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

About two weeks – a bad combo of my period, him being out of town for work, and him being sick. 

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@roweboat:  Well when we first  met, because of where we were at the time, we could not have sex for over three months. Once we were finally able to be together in a normal setting, the longest we have gone without it is 14 days due to his work shifts. 

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

5 months.  My husband (SO at the time) had a really long bout with kidney stones, followed by a hospitalization for gastric issues.  So… that sucked.

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