What's the most ridiculous thing someone has asked you about the wedding?

posted 4 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
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73 posts
Worker bee

If I’m pregnant, and if I would accept baby things.

 

I’m not pregnant, and I’m not even engaged yet! What?? lol I have a 10 month old brother that people think is mine, but that’s it haha

Post # 5
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710 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I was getting my nails done with my mom and sister before the wedding. The youngest girl in the nail salon was doing mine, and she was asking me questions about the wedding – what are your colors? What does your dress look like? How did you meet the groom, etc. Then she asked …

 

How are you paying for the wedding?

 

I think I said “with money” or something equally unfortunately snotty, and then struck up a conversation with my family. I was floored.

Post # 6
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73 posts
Worker bee

@Amayansong:  Yeahh.. I’m 19! I can’t imagine being pregnant! I mean, I would love nothing more than to start a family, but I’m in college and I need to finish my degree! Even after our wedding BF and I agreed to wait three years minimum… I have so much time!

Post # 8
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517 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Amayansong:  This isn’t exactly asked, but today I was talking to a work friend about how some of my family members just told my mom they couldn’t come now after they rsvp’d yes and I turned in my final numbers to the caterer and I was venting to my friend, telling her how if I couldn’t change it, it would cost me a lot. and she was like yeah what is it like $12 a person? I was like lol umm…..no I WISH it was that much!

Post # 9
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@Amayansong:  I can’t believe someone asked you that! Its so random! It would probably annoy me because I would take it as if they were already trying to complain about something at my wedding.

@confettiegg2000:  I love the way you responded to that! Why would someone even think thats appropriate to ask??

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

People ask how we are paying for our venue which is pricey. It doesnt bother me though but I wonder what makes people think it is ok to ask that type of question.

Post # 11
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75 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

-who else is coming to the wedding? (really? is that what determines whether or not you come?)

-are you having an open bar? (we are, but again, is that what determines whether or not you come?)

-are you having a sit-down wedding? (I’ve had this question more than once and I still don’t really understand…as opposed to a standing wedding?)

Post # 12
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3806 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

“so after the wedding, are you moving to jamaica?” 

really? why would i do that? lol and why would he? no. no we’re not.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@jasn:  I think they mean a sit down dinner?  But maybe some people have outdoor weddings and don’t rent chairs?

Post # 14
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610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Smithfield Center

– Are you pregnant?

– Why are you getting married so soon? (We’ve been engaged 8 months…we’ve been together 5 years.)

– From my MOH: Why can’t one of the colors be purple? Purple is my favorite color.

– Where are you going to live when you’re married? (SOMEWHERE WITH A ROOF?!?!)

 

Post # 15
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918 posts
Busy bee

@jasn:  I went to a standing wedding a couple of months ago.  I was in heels, and my feet got very sore!  Whether they will be sitting down or standing up during the ceremony is something that guests need to know so that they can decide what to wear.

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

“Are you actually going to make it to the altar?”

Seriously, wtf. And this has been more than one person. It’s not like I have a history of leaving grooms at the altar. This is my first (and hopefully only, of course!) engagement! What on earth makes people think they can ask me if I’m going to leave the groom hanging on our wedding day?!

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