What's the one sexual thing you can't talk about with other people?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@bee-for:  Nah, i am a pretty open book and my family is beyond confortable with sharing TMI. I am a product of my families confidence lol 

For example my MIL has seen me completely naked since her and my mom took me lingerie shopping for my honeymoon. It’s weird but they were honest with me and helped me find some pretty awesome things! 

MIL is also my number one person to vent to when DH is in a dry spell. My mother discusses her sex life with me and I do the same with her….

It’s weird but we are all comfortable, honest, and open people. 

***My DH knows everything about my fantasies and ect. 

I have no reason to hide anything from him or anybody for that matter Undecided

 

 

 

 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@bee-for:  I need a censor, I don’t cuss but I could probably make the kardashians ears turn red lol 

 

Post # 6
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Helper bee

I don’t tell my SO any details about my past unless explicitly asked, which he never does. We talk about anything with each other though, sometimes I even shock myself with how dirty some of the stuff we talk about can get. I love being able to be that open with him!

I don’t talk to my friends about that sort of thing at all, though. I was pretty open about that stuff when I was younger but now, all of my friends think I’m a gigantic prude. They would be absolutely shocked to know about the things I do! I’m okay with everyone but my SO thinking i’m innocent though 🙂

And @bee-for:, I totally feel you on the lesbian porn thing 🙂 It’s just so sensual and pretty!

Post # 7
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Helper bee

I’ll talk to my oh about anything, just as I’ll do almost anything he asks as well. I’ll talk about most stuff with my friends, but not the more intimate things. 

Post # 8
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Busy bee

With my friends, I NEVER discuss details of my current sex life. That would be a huge invasion of SO’s privacy, I just have no desire to do that to him.

With my SO, I don’t share the nitty gritty details of past sex partners. He knows how many (due to a drunken fight one night…oops) but he doesn’t know how…um…creative things have gotten. Again, I see no need to share anything that could only hurt.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

My sex talk is limited to the Bee’s intimacy threads. I don’t discuss anything with anyone I know IRL for a number of reasons. As far as communicating with SO, we know when who wants what and what we like and what’s okay, but we don’t spend a whole lot of time focusing on our sex life. We’re satisfied with it. Neither of us have any desire to know or talk about previous sexual relationships.

ETA: He did specifically come out and ask when we first started sleeping together, so we are aware of some things. I never wanted to discuss numbers. After he asked a few times, we talked a bit about it. Our past sex lives have not been brought up since then. I don’t think it was beneficial for us to even talk about it briefly.

 

 

 

Post # 11
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Helper bee

@bee-for:  I’ve learned you should keep private things private. What I share with DH in the bedroom belongs to no one but us. I’ll joke and talk about general things, but won’t go into specifics. I mean, I’m no prude, I’ll kid about midget porn all day, but we keep what’s between us special and sacred.

Post # 13
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

There’s a couple of things I won’t tell my friends!

But I’m also pregnant–I’m pretty sure no one wants to think about me having sex at all!

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

My friends and I tell each other everything…there are definitely things that some would find TMI. DH and I never discussed a sexual past or anything like that, so I guess you could say its “secret.” 

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I don’t talk sex with friends anymore. I feel too old to sit around and swap sex tips/fantasies/etc. My husband and I comfortably talk about our sexual needs. Isn’t that part of having a healthy (sexual) relationship?

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