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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    I know some of you are like, "who's the downer?", but there's a valid reason for the question.

    I work in a program that works soley with victims of the most violent and heinous crimes... super uplifting stuff.  Every year there's a week in April called National Crime Victim's Rights Week.  This is huge to us.  So we do a community wide vigil/commemoration/presentation kinda thing.  We have choirs and survivors and performances.  I am always in charge of all things visual.  So each year, I have to make a slide show of pictures that family members send me of their loved ones who have been murdered.  It's actually a horrible experience each year because I cry and cry and cry but, it means the world to those families.   

    I always put songs into the slide show.  Obviously it can't be like "Oh Happy Day" so I am looking to the hive for some suggestions.  So it doesn't necessarily have to be the saddest song you know, but that tends to be how it goes.

    In years past I've had, "Its so hard to say goodbye to yesterday" by Boyz II Men, "Please remember" by Leann Rimes, and "I will remember you" I think by Amy Grant.  The unfortunate thing, is that there are so many victims, I need more than one song this year.  Oh man, I wanna cry now.

    Thanks for any helpful suggestions you may have! 

     
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    OttawaBride2011    May 21, 2011   Ottawa, Ontario

    How about I Will Remember You by Sarah Maclachlan?

     
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    charismaclassic    May 29, 2010   Greeneville, TN

    Hallelujah by Jeff Buckley (or someone covering it) always gets me. 

     
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    msqthoney    April 10, 2010   Los Angeles, California

    For Good, from the musical Wicked.  It gets to me everytime I hear it!

     
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    lilyfaith    June 23, 2012   Lakeview, Chicago

    Ditto I Will Remember You when it's on the ASPCA commercials... gets me every time. 

    For me personally, Baylon by David Gray, Somewhere Over the Rainbow, and that religious song I Can Only Imagine (funny, because I'm not religious, but it played at my grandma's funeral) all have personal meaning related to people I've lost. 

     
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    Teaserama    March 18, 2010   Dunedin, Fl

    Ave Maria always gets me. I heard it at my FI cousin's funeral and just bawled.

     

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    Oh man!  I forgot ottawabride, I did do that Sarah Mclachlan song.  Sorry!  It was so emotional omg. 

    charismaclassic- that one gets me too!  But the lyrics seem a bit off. 

    msgthoney- I'm listening to it now, I don't remember it from the show!

     
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    mrs bonez    April 30, 2011  

    Eric Clapton. Tears in Heaven

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    lilyfaith- that is emotional.  I'm on youtube checking out all of the songs you guys are saying that I don't know. 

     
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    phedre    August 9, 2010   New Orleans, LA

    Garth Brooks - The Dance.  I know it's "country" and old but it makes me bawl like a baby every time I hear it.

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    Mrz bonez- that's a great one too!  I'm adding all of these to the list. 

     
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    MzThrowBac2B    December 2012   Tx

    I love that song I'm Already There By Lonestar. It's sad but at the same time I think it's kinda uplifting.

     
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    bloodgo1    May 14, 2010   Royal Oak

    definitely tears in heaven by eric clapton

     

     
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    Miss Chapstick    September 2009  

    Ugh, Tears in Heaven gets me every time. I seriously refuse to listen to that song ever. It's an instant downer. It's too bad because it's also a really beautiful song.

     
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    Goldilocks1107    September 2010   Madison, WI

    It doesn't work for your theme, but has anyone heard that "Christmas Shoes" song? I heard it for the first time on the radio before Christmas on my way to work. I was a sobbing mess by the time I pulled into the parking lot.

    Not sure if the lyrics are right but "If you're gone" by Matchbox Twenty is sad and wistful to me.

     
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    Entangled    September 17, 2011   Carmel, CA

    Oh, Tears in Heaven is a sad one.  Cats in the Cradle is the one that gets me every time.  Also She's Leaving Home by the Beatles.  There's one or two others I can't recall right now.  Family relationships and the passage of time are the only themes that actually hit me emotionally.

     
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    jackie-o    October 31, 2010   Seattle, WA

    For me personally b/c it reminds me of my mom and while she is still physically here - she is terminally ill w/ a neurological disease so she's pretty checked out...

    Sad songs are Bette Milders' - Wind Beneath My Wings and The Rose

     
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    gabrielleelise1981    August 28, 2010   Portland, Maine

    Second vote for Hallejulah. The saddest song to me personally is The Promise by Tracy Chapman, and I think the lyrics work for your cause/project.

     
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    Minutiae    May 2011  

    Oh My God, Jars of Clay. A six minute song that makes me cry every time I hear it. I don't think it will work for what you're doing, but you may find a use for it.  It doesn't seem like much at first; just listen to the lyrics and hold out to the end.

     
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    OttawaBride2011    May 21, 2011   Ottawa, Ontario

    Oh Tears in heaven is a good one! And jackie-o's suggestions are great too.

     
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    Holes in the floor of heaven, Steve Wariner. It would definitely fit your theme.

     
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    newbiecici    September 18, 2010   Louisiana

    The Dreaming Tree by: Dave Matthew's Band

     

     
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    Songbird by Eva Cassidy, Blackbird by the Beatles (there's also a really pretty version by Sarah McLachlan), Angel Standing By by Jewel, You Are Not Alone by Patty Griffin.

    Good luck with what you're doing!

     
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    Oh... and On Saturday Afternoons in 1963 by Ricky Lee Jones. I heard that on an episode of 'House' once and bawled.

     
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    Brianalaura    August 14, 2010   Ontario, Canada

    The only song I think that ever makes me cry and might be ok for your theme is Gravity by Sara Bareilles.  It's beautiful.

     
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    Monkeygirl    September 5, 2010   Philadelphia

    "Angel" by Sarah McLachlan would be fitting.

    I have never heard "The Rose" by Bette Midler without crying- every. single. time.

    I love Jeff Buckley, so I like Halelujiah too.

    Also, "Fix You" by Coldplay makes me cry. The lyrics kill me.

    "Amazing Grace" also an obvious good one.

    Good luck with your project!

     
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    LpCutiPie    July 3, 2010   Central Florida

    My suggestion is View from Heaven by Yellowcard It completely fits with what you're going for.

     
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    jduck84    August 2010   Minneapolis, MN

    Another vote for The Promise - the saddest song I have ever heard:

    http://s0.ilike.com/play#Tracy+Chapman:The+Promise:11238:m17774009

    If you wait for me then I'll come for you
    Although I've traveled far
    I always hold a place for you in my heart
    If you think of me If you miss me once in awhile
    Then I'll return to you
    I'll return and fill that space in your heart
    Remembering
    Your touch
    Your kiss
    Your warm embrace
    I'll find my way back to you
    If you'll be waiting
    If you dream of me like I dream of you
    In a place that's warm and dark
    In a place where I can feel the beating of your heart

    Remembering
    Your touch
    Your kiss
    Your warm embrace
    I'll find my way back to you
    If you'll be waiting
    I've longed for you and I have desired
    To see your face your smile
    To be with you wherever you are

    Remembering
    Your touch
    Your kiss
    Your warm embrace
    I'll find my way back to you
    If you'll be waiting
    I've longed for you and I have desired
    To see your face, your smile
    To be with you wherever you are

    Remembering
    Your touch
    Your kiss
    Your warm embrace
    I'll find my way back to you
    Please say you'll be waiting

    Together again
    It would feel so good to be
    In your arms
    Where all my journeys end
    If you can make a promise If it's one that you can keep, I vow to come for you
    If you wait for me and say you'll hold
    A place for me in your heart.

     
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    okqueenbee    Dec 4, 2009   OKC

    The 2 saddest songs I can think of are:

    1) The Dance - Garth Brooks

    2) May Angels Lead You In - by Jimmy Eat World

     
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    Monkeygirl    September 5, 2010   Philadelphia

    ......And I just looked up "The Rose" online and now my eyes are welled up with tears at work. LOL.  

     
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    bloodgo1    May 14, 2010   Royal Oak

    i know! tears in heaven was sad to begin with, but then when i learned that it is a tribute to eric clapton's son that died it was even MORE sad

     
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    glowawber    4/18/10   New Haven, CT

    I was going to say "The Promise" too!

     
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    pansyshell    October 8, 2010   Central Pa, Wedding in Outer Banks, NC

    Evanescence: My Immortal

    It was played at a friend of mines funnel who died our senior year of HS. It has such a creepy feel to it and totally brings me to tears hearing it. His name was Evan so even the bands name reminds me of the entire thing...Evan's escence. Can't even listen to them

     
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    LpCutiPie    July 3, 2010   Central Florida

    We also played Run by Snow Patrol for a friend who recently passed- I don't know if its exactly what youre looking for but it worked for us.

     
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    I Will Remember You-Sara McLaughlin
    Tears in Heaven - Eric Clapton
    Concrete Angel - Martina McBride
    One Sweet Day - Mariah Carey

     
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    msqthoney    April 10, 2010   Los Angeles, California

    Great suggestions, everyone.  I hope you keep us posted with the songs that you actually picked! :)

     
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    Over the Rainbow - Israel Kamakawiwo'ole (the Hawaiian artist);

    Time in a Bottle - Jim Croce

     
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    MrsK2be    November 15, 2008   Ohio

    Angel - by Sarah McLachlan (I cry every time I hear it)

     
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    mkendrick    August 1, 2009   Las Vegas

    @ jduck - that song just kills me.  Cry

     
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    sarahsd    August 14, 2010   San Diego

    Ok, maybe TOO sad for the slideshow:

    "Don't Take the Girl" by Tim McGraw!

     

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