Post # 1
OK I’m obviously avoiding cleaning by playing around on the computer but…
My husband thinks the thing that I find sexy is not the body of a man but something else and I’m wondering… Does he find this strange because he’s a man and he’s a visual creature or just simply because I’m odd with this? So I figure what better way to know than to get the ideas of the lovely ladies on the bee.
So… What do you find the *most* sexy about a man(as in, what makes you think yumm and lick your lips? I will try to include everything I could think someone would find sexy but I’m only allowed so many choices in the poll. I’m also not going to click the choose multiple options because I want to know… Of everything sexy, what is the most sexy to you?
If you had to choose just one, what would be the absolute sexiest thing about a person?
Post # 3
Omg I love the shoulder/chest/ back area…. Def my absolute fave part on a man, so sexy haha
Post # 4
I voted chest/shoulders/back. I like the athletic build on a guy. I’m not a fan of guys who are brawny/body builder type, though. // As for the absolute sexist thing about a person/man? I love DH’s assertiveness. He is ready to stand up for himself (sometimes for me and my sisters, too).
Post # 5
oh god. This is sooo hard! I went with personality though. This past week has made me realize how honest and genuine he is and i love him for it.
Post # 6
I know this isn’t on the list but his….tattoos! (;
Post # 7
Physically? Eyes for sure.
But really, it is DH’s personality/humor that really draws me to him.
Post # 8
shoulders/arms/back! Certain shirts FI wears drive me crazy and he thinks i’m weird because i tell him they make these areas stand out…although he doesn’t mind because then i can’t keep my hands off of him! lol
Post # 9
- Wedding: September 2014 - Lodge
To me the sexiest things are eyes and smile. I had an ex who was the biggest douche and yet I still was head over heels for him because he’d look at me with the most gorgeous dark blue eyes and sexiest smile and I could just forgive him because it made me weak in the knees. BLECH. I now think of him and want to induce vomiting because he was an ass hole.
Luckily my FI has just as gorgeous of blue eyes, an even sexier smile AND treats me well. So FI wins.
Post # 10
It was a tough choice between chest/shoulders/back and muscles, but I think I have to say muscles. For some reason, I love how my FI can pick me up and carry me around with pretty much no effort. I don’t like bulgy bodybuilder muscles, but I like that my FI is strong and can do physical things that I can’t. Also, I firmly believe that if you put a well-tailored suit on any sexy guy, he will reach unspeakable levels of hotness. I’m kind of in trouble on my wedding day since my FI will be wearing a suit 😛
Post # 11
…there really isn’t a correlation between any of the men I’ve been with….but there was something about every single one of them that just drove me crazy…
There was this artist, and he had the most elegant, strong, masculine hands I’d ever seen, and they were always covered with paint, or he had charcoal under his thumbnail….it made me crazy every time I saw them, I wanted them all over me.
I dated a cellist once, he was the gangly, awkward creature, until he started to play and he was transformed into this passionate, complicated, almost otherworldly man, tilting his head, eyes closed as he played….I had to stop going to his concerts, we barely made it out of the back door most nights.
I’m a little picky in that area….it could be a laugh, the way he puts his hair behind his ear, men are so much more complicated than the sum or their parts….I’m a conoissuer of the more unusual breeds I guess.
Post # 12
I know this isn’t a body part, but I have a thing about men in jeans. Not tight jeans but not super baggy either– just right. I don’t know what it is, but I dig it. 😉
Post # 13
@MrsNewBride427: My BF has an ass like a medicine ball. I love it.
Post # 14
His chest! I know I may be outnumbered here but I do not like the naked chest especially if a guy shaves it. I’m a sucker for a hairy chest lol Good thing my FI is a teddy bear 😉
Post # 15
@badabing88: haha DH has “ass for days” when he is fit(;
Post # 16
I’m a leg girl. FI is a big guy but has really nice legs.