(Closed) What’s wrong with me?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1757 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Hi, date twin. I’m right there with you. I’m completely and totally over the Wedding thing, and desperate for the Married thing. This is literally copied and pasted from a gmail chat my fiance and I were having during the workday: “I’m tired of trying to check stuff of a to-do list when I don’t really give a crap anymore.” Hopefully, we’ll both work past this and decide again that the wedding will be fun and worth it. All of our loved ones, under one roof, united to see us vow to stay with one person forever. No matter what, though, you’re not alone.

Post # 4
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1104 posts
Bumble bee

There’s nothing wrong with you, looking at everything you have going on I’m not surprised you’re feeling a bit down. Be kind to yourself, don’t worry about not being super excited, and I think you will feel better soon. Lots of sleep, fresh air, exercise, good food, quality time with your FI, and forgive yourself for not feeling the way you want to at this point. Your wedding will still be beautiful and you will marry your wonderful man 🙂

Post # 5
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65 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@HunnyBear:

 

I’m really really sorry you’re going through so much right now 🙁 It’s totally reasonable just in terms of planning alone to be stressed out, never mind all the other stuff that’s going on. I know it probably seems difficult for you to get excited thinking about a celebration for you and your fiancée when so many other people close to you are going through so much, but when it comes time for the day, it’s completely your right to relax and enjoy “your day”. When people in your family see that you’re celebrating and enjoying your new marriage, they’ll feel like it’s ok to do the same. It sounds like everyone could use a happy occasion to celebrate right now, think of it as a welcome breath of fresh air for everyone and a good reason for people to come together and be happy about something 🙂

Post # 6
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4547 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I feel pretty much the same way! I’m over the planning thing and am ready to be MARRIED and on our honeymoon!

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