Post # 1
Mine is 13. And I am 31. Is it a lot? My boyfriend has only had 2 other partners (he is very handsome but SUPER shy), and he knows I have had “some” boyfriends, I just never mentioned exactly how many 🙂 Not that there is a problem, I was just curious to see how this compares with other couples 😉
Post # 2
I think a persons “number” depends on a LOT of things. I started dating my FI in high school. So my number is 1. But if I hadn’t had a serious relationship through high school and college I imagine that my number would be higher by quite a bit. I think this because I wasn’t raised to believe that sex is bad. Babies before marriage was frowned upon, but the actual sex-acts weren’t.
Post # 3
ladymarian : My husband is older than me, and while he started earlier than I did, he only beats my number by 3. He was far more picky than I was. Not including each other, we are 7 and 10 respectively.
Post # 4
Mine and my husband’s is 1 but we’ve been together since we were 18.
Post # 5
We’re in our late 20s. My number is 4, and my SO’s number is 1, assuming we’re limiting the number to penetrative sex. My SO was waiting til he found “the one” and was basically one of those “everything but penetration” type.
Post # 6
My husband is 3 years older than me. My number is 3 and his is somewhere around 15. We met in our mid 20s.
Post # 7
I was my husband’s first (like a PP said, he wanted to wait for the right person for sex, but fooled around a bit). I had one serious relationship before I started dating my husband, so my number is 2. My husband and I started dating when we were 20, so I don’t find it odd that we have such low numbers.
Post # 9
Me? 1. My husband.
Husband? I believe 6 including me if I remember correctly.
Post # 10
Him: He doesn’t know. And I don’t care.
We are both in our 30’s. We both are clean and it lead to us being happy with each other. That’s all that matters.
Post # 12
I have no idea. I’m sure if I wanted to sit down and think about it, I could probably come up with a probable range, but it’s not something thats ever occurred to me or has anyone ever asked me.
Post # 13
- Wedding: October 2016 - Lola's Trailer Park
2 1/2 for me.
No clue about DH, don’t want to know and he wouldn’t ever tell me even if I did.
Post # 14
Including each other:
We started dating when we were 20. My husband had only kissed a few other people than me so unlike some PPs hadn’t fooled around with anyone before me. I had a lot more encounters with fooling around than he did.