(Closed) When are people invited to the rehearsal dinner?

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: How would you handle this?
    Go to work party : (15 votes)
    79 %
    Ask my parents what to do : (0 votes)
    Wait until the last possible moment to RSVP to the work dinner- then rehearsal if invited : (1 votes)
    5 %
    Tell family I will try to make both, knowing I realistically won't be able to : (3 votes)
    16 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    4047 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I received an invite to the last RD at the same time as the wedding invitation. 

    In your case, I would RSVP to work event, you haven’t been invited to the Rd and I assume you are not in the wedding, so you don’t actually need to rehearse?

    Post # 4
    Member
    7 posts
    Newbee

    It seems to me you already don’t want to go. id say make a list of the positives and Negative things. From what it sounds like in my opinion you shouldn’t go but I also don’t know the entire situation or how your brother feels about you going? also think about which one would you regret more. Would you regret not going to the rehearsal dinner or would you regret going?

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