(Closed) When are you sending invitations??

posted 5 years ago in February 2013
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@febbybride:

You could consider a save-the-date option in early November, then wait a bit longer to send out the actual invitations.

Our wedding is on a holiday weekend (Labor Day), so we got the save-the-dates out in early May (meant to do it in April, but we are terrible procrastinators) and only just got the invitations mailed today for a September 1 wedding.

  

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I think it depends on if you will have any out of town guests or those who need to make extra arrangements to come. Almost half of our guest list were people out of state or country and so we sent ours out really early (6 months) because we knew most of them would respond right away that they  would not be able to make it. But if you know most people will be able to because they live close to the wedding then just after christmas should be fine.

How many people were you hoping to invite? What’s the percentage of our of town folks?

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@coopstah:  I agree about the save the dates.

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

I think the day after Christmas is fine, but if you have a lot of OOT guests, maybe 2 weeks earlier wouldn’t be a bad idea since mail take a bit longer at that time of year.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I am getting married feb 16 and we are sending out save the dates in mid August and invites mid December. 

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m getting married Feb 1st and I’m sending save the dates next week. I’m sending these because we are doing a Friday wedding so I want everyone to get alot of notice this way I can send the invites at the 8-10 week mark.

Post # 10
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Newbee
  • Wedding: February 2013

More than half of our guest list will have to fly if they plan to attend our wedding, so we sent our Save the Dates in May. We only have two airlines in Canada, and I wanted to give people lots of notice so that they could plan vacations and watch for seat sales.

I’m not sure when we’ll send out our actual invitations!

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Mailing invites out November 16th for our February 17th wedding.  RSVP will be due January 18th.  Wanted to get the invitations out before Thanksgiving and the December holidays.  All of my FI’s family lives in California and the wedding is in Maryland.  Better to get invitations out early.  We mailed out our save the dates two weeks ago.. I think, give or take. haha. 

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

I already sent mine about a month ago….only reason is because we live in Alaska and wedding is in Florida. We want to give our guests enough time to plan ahead 🙂 We had sent our STD’s around May.

Post # 13
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Well im sending mine out to expec them rsvp no later than 1st sept and to have them rsvpd by dec 1st as this avoids all the christmas post, and   than your not waiting around chasinf peiple up at the last min xx

Post # 14
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

2/16/2013 wedding…sent out my save-the-dates August 1st, and was tentatively planning on sending the real invitations December-ish.  I’m a little worried about getting caught up in the Christmas mailing rush, and I’m also paranoid about RSVP’s, since I’ll need to give a headcount to the caterer by 2/1/2013, and I have a bad feeling I’ll be tracking down some RSVP’s…UGH!

Post # 15
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Newbee
  • Wedding: February 2013

2/23/2013 wedding…. sending out save-the-dates next week.. YAY….

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@MsTunson:  Yay for February brides!  What are your colors?  I’m so curious what everyone is planning! 🙂

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