When did/will you consider your wedding as "soon"

posted 3 years ago in Logistics
  • poll: When did/ will you consider your wedding as soon
    Three months : (18 votes)
    33 %
    Two months : (11 votes)
    20 %
    One month : (9 votes)
    17 %
    One week : (1 votes)
    2 %
    After we sent invites : (8 votes)
    15 %
    After another event (tell me below!) : (0 votes)
    Not until the night before : (0 votes)
    Before three months : (7 votes)
    13 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    4513 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I felt like it was soon when we were about a month out. We had a long engagement (2.5yrs) and a long relationship (12 yrs) so it seemed like it would never come!

    Post # 4
    Member
    2878 posts
    Sugar bee

    I’m a little over a year ahead (if all goes well) and I’m thinkin it’s soon ! I can’t imagine when we send out invites and have our full deposit 45 days before the event. :/

    Post # 5
    Member
    935 posts
    Busy bee

    @excitedtobeMRSF:  I think “soon” is relative to how long you engagement is. Also, if you are having a lot of DIY elements, you may start to feel the pressure earlier, hence soon would be alot sooner.

    Post # 6
    Member
    3756 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    I’ve been engaged for a year and have 5 months left, it’s definitely starting to feel “soon” now. I knew once we got to the fall/holidays that time would fly and it is. But I know in January things will slow down a bit, but I’ll have a lot to do and a lot to look forward to!!

    Post # 7
    Member
    8425 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I considered ours “soon” around 2 months, we had a 10 month engagement.  I did a ton of DIY, but had started early and wasn’t behind on any projects.

    Post # 8
    Member
    9137 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

    The date that made me think “whoa our wedding is soon” was when we clicked down from 100 days to 99 days.  Something about going from triple digits to double digits just made it real finally.  But we had a relatively long engagement since we were engaged for one month shy of two years.

    Post # 9
    Member
    3394 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Um, about now! So roughly six months out. Probably because we procrastinated a lot earlier on, and it’s just the past few weeks when we’ve actually started making decisions on the venue, wedding planner, photographer etc. 

    Post # 10
    Member
    2571 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    I felt like the past month or so is when we started getting the “soon!” comments.  I haven’t really felt that up until this past weekend… It’s on like Donkey Kong in about 2 weeks. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

    Post # 11
    Member
    46 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    @excitedtobeMRSF:  My wedding has been “soon” since I started planning it last August! We only had 5 months to get everything together and there’s still so much to do.

    Post # 12
    Member
    1194 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    @excitedtobeMRSF:  We’re 6.5 months out right now and FI keeps saying it’s “soon,” in fact he’s been saying it’s soon since September! I don’t feel it yet though. I don’t think I will at least until two-three months out. For reference, we’re having a 15 month engagement.

    Post # 13
    Member
    7281 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

    When I hit 100 days. That was my freakout moment when it suddenly felt like the time was getting close.

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