When do I give gifts to those special that helped?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
441 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

If you are having a rehearsal dinner, I think that’s the perfect place to do it.  We gave all our gifts and said our thank yous then, and it was great, because it doesn’t get lost and everyone is generally calm and relaxed the night before. 

Post # 4
1721 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I think you could also just give it to them each individually.  I don’t think you necessarily need to mention them all in a speech during the reception (although if you want to…thats a possiblility) but I think they would just love having you and your FI take a minute to thank them and give it to them whenever you can.

Post # 5
2962 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@Cheeks225:  +1. I would give it to them at the rehearsal dinner. Some people pass out gifts on the morning of individually and privately but I think you (and others) will have so much going on the day of the wedding you wont have the time to give them that private attention.

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