(Closed) When do we give our BM their gifts?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
405 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I think its up to you, but I once received them at the bachelorette party and once at the rehearsal dinner.  When I received them at the bachelorette party it was a smaller one so therefore it wasn’t weird opening a gift in front of people who weren’t in the wedding party.  I think the rehearsal works well because its smaller and more intimate.  Hope that helps!  

Post # 4
2538 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

I had a special brunch about a month before the wedding.  It was fun to get together and talk wedding details.  I gifted their shoes so I needed to get them to them ahead of time to make sure they were the right size etc.

Post # 5
44 posts
  • Wedding: June 2008

My fiance and I are giving our bridesmaids/groomsmen and all our family gifts out at the rehearsal dinner. It’s more intimate and that way no one feels left out over doing it at a bachelorette party or shower where there might be people there who arent in the wedding…Hope that helps!

Post # 6
167 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Yup! Rehearsal dinner!

Post # 7
1851 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I’ve always seen it done at the rehearsal dinner. Smile

Post # 8
6826 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Rehearsal dinner least that is how have seen it done. 

Post # 9
16217 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I plan to do it at the rehearsal dinner because it’s likely there will be a couple of friends at my bachelorette party who aren’t in the wedding party. At the rehearsal dinner, on the other hand, all in attendance should either be family or participating in the wedding somehow.

Post # 10
514 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

I always got them at the rehersal dinner unless they weren’t having one then I got it once at the bach party and once after the shower (which wasnt a surprise so the bride had them with her).

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