(Closed) When do you Fight?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
4765 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

He’s never mentioned it, but I definitely think we do fight more around my period! We also fight a lot more when Fiance is stressed about school – he picks fights with me about the dumbest stuff, about about 15 minutes into it he’s like “wait, are we seriously fighting about this?!”

Post # 4
4567 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I haven’t been TOLD the same thing, but I’ve noticed that we usually argue when I’m… moody, shall we say. Or he’s doing something that I REALLY don’t like.

Post # 6
651 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I was just going to write a post with the same thing!  2 months ago my SO showed me a calendar from last year where he marked “F” on days when we had a fight and put a red dot on days when I got my period (yes he’s insane, and I laughed hysterically when he showed me this).  Unfortunately, it was true.  We fight the day before I get my period, every time…like clockwork.  And yep, we fought today, tomorrow my period is due.

Post # 7
1075 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

We only fight when he pisses me off.

Post # 8
5263 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

When one of us hasn’t had coffee. 

Sadly, I’m not kidding!

Post # 11
11325 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

@ wendy lol

yea i dont really think there is any correlation for me. but i’ve been on the pill forever and i dont get pms or anything either. we don’t really fight all that often but it seems pretty sporadic. 

we fought about an hour ago– boo. still not resolved. hate that.

Post # 12
2404 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

ha, we fight when we are in bad moods and definitely when its that time of the month! Fiance tells me that hes ready for more fights when that week rolls around and he is usually right!

i know that i can get snippy during that week and try to control myself but without fail we ALWAYS fight at least once that week. embarrassing but soooo true!!

Post # 14
2083 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Hmm well he has never come right out and said it, but the other day I was pmsing and I knew it – I spazzed out at him about something ridiculous that i can’t even remember now and a few seconds later I realized it and just busted out laughing. I was like “I have no idea why I just freaked out like that! I think I’m pmsing!” I don’t always realize it lol but I’m sure that there is an increase in my moodiness around that time.

Post # 15
1854 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

We don’t fight very often. Usually more when he’s tired, or if I am not super careful of how I express my feelings – he does not take criticism very well and feels overly responsible for my feelings, so he does not react well and it will trigger an argument. Usually everything will be resolved the day after.

Post # 16
81 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

FI’s never said anything about it (and that’s one of the many reasons I love him…he puts up with me!) but we definitely fight more the week prior.  I find myself picking fights for no good reason at all and one minute I’m ticked off and the next minute I’m laughing and happy.  Sometimes I wonder how they put up with us….

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