When HE is the one bringing it uo!

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
2529 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

My FI did the same thing. I joined the SIUP once I knew we had it in the house. He waited 3 weeks. Early congrats!

Post # 3
444 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

dmh426:  My GF brings it up daily and I’ve got another 2-4 months of waiting! I totally get what you’re going through and it’s not easy. I’ve just learned to enjoy the conversation when it comes up and then drop it. It’s definitely a sign it’s coming soon though! 😀

Post # 5
444 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

dmh426:  Keeping busy is the best thing! Probably the only thing keeping me sane, haha. We’ve had our rings since late April in the house. I would say that my waiting period started around then because it’s when I started to get the most antsy and we both knew that we were going to get engaged, it was just a matter of when. We’re moving the end of August into a new place so I’m super thankful for the distraction it’s providing! 

If he’s hinting that majorly it’s got to be coming soon! I can’t see him making you wait for too much longer! Have you found anything that’s helped the waiting thus far? I read, watch television shows, or knit. 

Post # 6
5482 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

dmh426:  Is there a SIUP for dudes? Lol!! Good luck and (early) congrats!

Post # 7
2376 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

My FI would drop little hints like that from time to time. While he was in the process of picking out my ring he’d say stuff like “Just wait til you see it… So sparkly!” or little things like that. I just wanted to smack him. 

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