- 3 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
Kind of a weird, random question for a married gal like me to be asking. DH and I had one date. On our second date, we kissed, and we established a relationship at that point, that we would officially be exclusive. I guess I don’t kiss a guy a 2nd time if isn’t willing to be my boyfriend.
My brother is 22 years old, has had very few girlfriends, but he has been dating this girl for about a month now. They hang out together a few times a week, have had 5 official dates, and have kissed (he’s also bought her flowers a few times). Being the nosy sister that he loves with all his heart (hehe), I asked all these questions and also asked if she was his girlfriend. He said they’re dating, and he really likes her and is excited for her to meet all of us since he met her family already. So he didn’t really confirm if she is a girlfriend or not.
I told him, as a JOKE, he needs to decide by Friday because we’re announcing our pregnancy at a dinner he plans on bringing her to, and if he brings her to such an important family event he either then has to marry her or kill her, lol. He found that delightfully amusing.
So, Bees, when is a relationship official to YOU? When you have a first kiss? Sex for the first time? When he introduces you as his girllfriend? When you are introduced to his family? When he says I love you? When it’s Facebook official? I am curious.