- 8 years ago
- Wedding: May 2011
Ok so I haven’t been on here in a while…our original wedding date was sent for July 17 and I made save the date magnets and everything sent out to guest…blah blah. We had to cancel that due to financial reasons…ok got over that new date Sept 11. Well currently ladies we cancelled that to (that was done mths ago and i was completely disappointed not to mention bitter). We had some problems but from my point of view we still couldhave kept going. Money was a problem them too. Our marriage couselor suggested we do “The Love Dare” it was really awesome and we learned alot and it really has helped alot of things in our relationship. Fiance has been talking lately about how he really does wanna get married and wants to spend hislife with me (i’m rolling my eyes) I know I shouldn’t feel bitter and like “whatever” but he kinda burned me twice ya know. I don’t even like to bring up the subject cause i feel stupid from the previous 2 times!! What do i do? I figure let him bring it up whenever but im more of the “leader” in our relationship. I just dont wanna “push” or “start” the convo ya know? He say the other day that we need to talk about doing something small…(looking at him like, what serious man…cmon). I think he’s scard that I don’t wanna go there with him anymore b/c of this whole thing. He did apologize for not planning properly and having cold feet/being flaky and putting me through this cause he just wants to make sure we are doing the right thing…OK WE’VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR ALMOST 4 YRS…HELLO?? Advice please, cause this is outta control. What should i do? wait alittle while longer…? I’m thinking when it happens it will be perfect and we’ll be glad we waited but im not trying to keep waiting…I want a house and start on kids soon…cmon man! Why are men so slow to get with it and move to the next phase sometimes…UGH!