(Closed) When it feels like the effort is one-sided: what do you do?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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3847 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2004

I pull back from that relationship.  If they are worth it they will miss me and get in the game.  If they don’t care enough to contribute to the relationship than that tells me everything I need to know

 

 

Post # 4
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600 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2006

I pull back from the relationship, but similarly with you, I tell my SO what I need or am missing.  I’m a therapist and it’s the same in counseling, if the therapist is working harder than the client, the therapist pulls back to give room for the client to talk their stuff out.

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