- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
I’ve seen so many stories of how girls met up with an old crush and things went wrong, so I thought I’d share my experience of meeting up with a former crush where things went totally right.
Okay, so right now I’m in my FI’s home state of California visiting his family. We decided to go to San Francisco for a day to see the sights. I found out that an old friend of mine (whom I happened to have a huge crush on for a little while in high school) now lives close to SF. He contacted me and he and FI and I decided to get lunch while we were all in the area.
So, the day of the trip came and we met up with him. I saw him and felt… affection, but not attraction. He’s still a great guy and I still enjoy being around him, but I only feel friendship for him now. I had a blast eating lunch with him and it was great to catch up with him (and hear him talk about his girlfriend!)
To be honest, for a little while I was worried that seeing him would stir up old feelings, but I am over my old crush and meeting with him now confirmed it 100%. I’m glad, because that means we can be friends with no worries of complications. 🙂